we dated for a day but i only dumped him because he was my cousins ex and she got really pissed off at me . big mistake he was like my best friend . and i think he really did love me i mean he said that he loved me and i told him to prove it so he kissed me . my very first kiss . and i want him back but dont know how to explain my feelings . plz help i really do still love him . he is 17 and im 14 is that ok??
2006-12-18 09:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by kaila g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course its okay sweetie..
you should talk to him..tell him how you feel..and why you didint want to be with him (bc of you cousin) but tell him that you want him back bc he's really special to you..
it shouldnt matter if hes your cousins ex...obviously things didnt work out btwn them...but that doesnt mean things wont work out btwn yuo and him....
good luck!!
2006-12-18 09:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have thought about the age difference, right? Good. Now, what you should do is explain to him why you dumped him (but don't make your cousin seem too much like the bad guy, or she'll be mad at you!), and apologize OVER AND OVER AGAIN. If he really loves you as much as he says, he will forgive you. Oh, and one more thing: make sure you do all that using a mode of communication that you can't cut off (like an email as opposed to in person, when he could walk away or cut you off). Clearly you want him back, so you need to express that. Be warned: he might not believe you at first. Be persistant. Hope you guys get back together!
2006-12-18 17:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by hillystargirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any 17 year old boy is only after one thing from a young girl like yourself, if really meant what he said," i love u" then let him come to you. but i bet you he wont come because he really does not have those feelings for you. i think what you feel is a crush or maybe you do love him, either way wait for him and see if he follows you.. besides you don't want to rush into anything, there are so many young boys out there and in your age group. does your parents know? you should talk to someone about it. just do yourself a favor: set some standard's for yourself, and be prepared for a let down, but do not, i repeat, do not rush into sex because he kissed you and said that he does love you.. don't fall for it, be smarter then him!
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2006-12-18 17:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by debra_ehu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should grow up before you start dating. next year he will be an adult and you will be jailbait. focus on your studies. find a sport or a hobby you can participate in and stay off the boys. trust me i have been there and you will learn as you get older. take cae.
2006-12-18 17:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is forever age aint nothing but a number
2006-12-18 17:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by priceness45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw my ex is like that too he was such a player he toled me he loved me and then we broke up and now he hates me and tells everyone he hates me and its been a YEAR ugh. just don't let him get to u. that's wut i try to do. best of luck
2006-12-18 17:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by mmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still a little girl.
2006-12-18 17:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by explorer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋