I have been chatting to someone online, this has developed into long phone calls and exchanging pictures and myspaces. I think I love him, and he says he loves me (a lot, all the time - as do I). There is nothing that would surprise me about his appearance, as i've seen lots of recent photos (and yes, I definitely know they are because he has a webcam) and we have got to know each other's personalities really well from all the long phone calls (hours and hours) but do you think if we met in real life it could be any different? Can I trust my feelings?
2006-12-18 09:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think you can.
Exercise caution - there are too many cynics in this world.
2006-12-18 09:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been reading different stories regarding ldr on yahoo i myself am in a ldr with a guy for the last few mths who i have known for a year. I was apprehensive about it as i have been ther ebefore but this guy makes me very happy. i dont know if i would go as far as saying being in love with him. we have seen each other on cam , chat 3.4 times a week at least and have seen many pics of each other. we have chatted on phone for a few mins too a couple of times. he is now coming over to where i live (yes we live in different countries). i know what my heart says but i think if you excercise caution and be sensible you will be ok. i guess lettering people know what you are doing, (playing it safe)
if it is meant to be then that is great and if not well it is a learning experience. i would suggest you try and meet soon, maybe i know money can be a factor though; unless you are strong enough to wait a couple of years. I think trust is an important issue too
i think go for it., love is a gamble and i wish you lots of luck and happiness.
2006-12-18 10:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by s r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love over the internet can happen, but you have to be careful...Some people aren't who they claim to be in real life. Also, talking on a phone and physically being with someone are two different things, and you may not completely know how this guy really is until you are physically with him.
Be open to the relationship, but take caution.
2006-12-18 09:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started chatting to a man online 3 years ago and fell in love with him just through talking and seeing him on the cam and he said he felt the same. He lived in Egypt, I'm in the UK. We spoke online for nearly a year, he invited me to meet his family, so I went to Egypt, and as soon as I saw him I knew my feelings weren't playing tricks on me. We married 2 years ago and I've never been so happy in all my life. Trust your instincts by all means but take care also. I wish you luck and happiness.
2006-12-18 09:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it can happen but you dont know what other person is like because youre just chatting to him on the phone. i know what you are on about but what if one day he says " oh ive been seing this girl yhe and she goes to me marry me and i said yes youll find someone much better than me" so the point is meet him as soon as possible ok youll know yourself if theres anything different now.
2006-12-18 20:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by bbxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a gf online and we love each other a lot and wont be able to see each other for a yr or 2 but it will work out
2006-12-18 09:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was so in love with my boyfriend and i never got with him till 6 weeks after we started talking on the fone and writing letters and we are so in love 2 yrs down the line
2006-12-18 09:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by swanwiteuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't be silly. Get a grip on life.
Until you meet and associate you are in a near virtual reality situation.
2006-12-19 00:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instincts hun, they are usually right. Pessimists may try to put you off, take no notice, they're just jealous. But also be very careful. xx
2006-12-18 09:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by RUTH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can happen (if your over 25yrs old maybe ) you can talk and get to know someone quite quickly (under 25 dont think so )not enough experience ::::::::why 25???? you start getting experence from about that age (trust)
2006-12-18 09:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋