I think my bf likes sum1 else.Well,in science class I sit in the very back.This gurl sits infront of me down a couple seats.And my bf sits at the front of the room,the very last seat.But evr=ery morning I will look at him and I will see him looking back,or so I think,and it turns out he will be talking to her.Her name is Michael,yes like the boy's name.But I just don't see y,well..its just that they r both punk and I am kinda punk,and they listen to the same stuff and kno of the same bands that I dont really kno.But they play around w/ eachother...like she can make him laugh and he can make her laugh.But I can make him laugh and i have made him laugh so many x b4.But I also think SHE likes HIM.It annoys me b/c every time i c her I get real jealous.But I just dont c y he doesnt dump me 4 her.They have so much in common it makes me wanna cry.Does he like her?She can make him laugh and he always talks 2 her b4 he talks 2 me.And he said he didn't like ne1 else but I'm still not sure...
2006-12-18 09:07:07 · 11 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said he didn't like ne1 else and i dunno.But I'm afraid if i say somethin 2 ne1 ill b wrong or if i WAS right they will start dating eachother and he will break up w/ me.Do I keep my trap shut?Or do I ask him?Or just wut do i do?!?!
2006-12-18 09:09:51 · update #1
CHILL OUT!!!
You're obviously not ready for any type of relationship. If you are going to have a relationship you need to be able to extend some amount of trust. Let him have fun with her, laugh at them but also make sure she and he both know he's your man. Know in your heart and mind or it's not a real relationship!
Sounds like you're in highschool, you need not date in highschool! There is no point to it, unless you just want heartbreak. You might meet someone but realistically you'll probably find someone when your in your LATE 20's.
If you're paniked about flirting, then you're not ready for a relationship. Don't let it get to you about him and her, just enjoy it like it's comedy hour or else he'll sense it and run and/or she'll sense it and flirt more, just to piss you off (women are caty)
Just relax, don't sweat her, if he goes to her, let him go. You can't control anyone else, you can only control yourself. You don't want to cause him undue stress by telling him to leave her alone, he'll dump you. Just let them be, laugh it off, act like you don't care or else you'll regret it.
2006-12-18 09:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is going to be your life story honey, we have all been there don't be so serious about it. Let him know how you feel and if he respects you let him introduce you to her as his girlfriend so at least she will definitely know who you are. If he doesn't want to do that, then I think he is hiding that fact of his feelings for her and you need to dump him. Because what will eventually happen is you will hang on and the both of them will have hooked up behind your back, then you will be the laughing stock of them two. I don't think you want to give them that opportunity, let him know you are smarter than that. First, tell him how you feel if you already have then, second just have him introduce you guys like I said and he must refer to you as his girl. Know this one thing in life NEVER allow your man to befriend another woman without her knowing of your existence. Give him the benefit he is a young boy they don't think much, lol. Good luck
2006-12-18 09:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you then don't worry about him he should be fine if you don't kno some of the stuff she knows and you kno when people have to much in common they kinda get bored really quick so its OK if you don't kno some of the bands they talk about.. And if you want to talk with him about that then put it in a way he will understand like ask about some of the bands hes talking about so that shows him your interested. With out telling him your really jealous.
2006-12-18 09:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by mosas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. learn how to write properly. All that abbreviating makes it really hard to understand what you're trying to say.
b. If he liked her, he probably would have left you for her by now
c. If it's making you crazy than why don't you dump him? My ex was always flirting with another girl and I didn't really like him anymore so I left him.
2006-12-18 09:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip. They could be just friends. If it was more he would have dumped you already, trust me, my friend had the same problem, but everything went fine. He likes you, that's why you're the one that's going out with him, not her. Don't worry everything will be fine. Peace!
2006-12-18 09:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by chit chat girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me just tell u that people that are the same dont get along well, theres nothing new to know and nothing to fight about, u r his other half, u have what he doesnt and thats what he needs, before u junp to conclusions ask someone that sits close to them and see whats relly going on.
2006-12-18 09:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by katykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think he likes her then thats you but just go with ur heart does it really lokk like it? because they really could be just riends. but if yu really thnk that he likes her then YOU need to dump him b4 he dumps you and hurts you. thats what i would do but first you needa find out if he REALLY likes her
2006-12-18 09:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by dezire m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU STILL PLAYING THE GAME? HE MUST WANT TO BE WITH HER, OR HE WOULD NOT BE LAUGHING AND TALKING WITH HER. YOU NEED TO CUT YOUR LOSSES AND MOVE ON.
2006-12-18 09:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by jasjasrvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to worry, he's not worth it. Move on. Tell him you know he likes her and for him to go for it.
2006-12-18 09:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you too need to get a guy that's out of the third grade :) :) :)
2006-12-18 09:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋