I have been together with my boyfriend for almost five years and I am really happy with him. The problem is that I don't really like his family. His parents are really nice to me but I find them very different than my parents. It is a family that no one knows of and I simply don't really like them. For this reason I am starting to have doubts on my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I really love him, he is a great guy, responsabile, respectful and really loves me but everyone tells me that I just don't get married with him, I get married wih the whole family. Should I break up with him?
2006-12-18 09:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"the whole family",, never heard of that, is that some kind of new religion? i would say, no your not marrying his whole family. oh wait, do you live in kentucky?
2006-12-18 09:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by, "It is a family that no one knows of"?
The only reason why I doubt that you should marry this guy is that you would even CONSIDER not marrying this guy for his family.
My family is totally wacko, and any guy who would considering not marrying me because of my wacky family is just plain not good enough for me. I am a sweetiepie, and the guy who is in love with me is so totally smitten, he will take me in spite of my family without a second thought.
The fact that you are thinking this way means you probably aren't as in love with him as you think.... Maybe you just really, really like him and really, really care about him.
Don't you want a soulmate, honey?
If he is your soulmate, then he sure as anything deserves a lot better behaviour from you.
2006-12-18 17:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amsterdam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If you're planning on breaking up with him because of his family than you don't deserve him or his family. He is the one that should be breaking up with you. He has no control over how his family is. He can't change them. You have no right to break up with him for a stupid reason like that. It's pathetic.
2006-12-18 17:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he isn't the problem then why break up with him? It's his family you should just try to stay away from his parents an tell him how you feel. If isn't okay with that then he isn't right for you.
2006-12-18 17:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
Dont break up with him! NO WAY. I have dated guys and loved
their family more than them, but that didnt keep me with the guy.
The most important relationship is the one the 2 of you have-
together.
2006-12-18 17:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
It's not his fault, he should not be the one to suffer just because you don't like his family!
Try to get along w/ everybody, and learn to like them a little.
I don't think this is worth dumping someone over. Plus, if you do, good luck explaining this 2 him!
2006-12-18 17:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't break up with him. you will marry him not his family. you can always move with him to another state or farther away from his family.
2006-12-18 17:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him how you are feeling yet? That is your first step. Second be honest with him and your feelings about his family.....Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-18 17:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married and move far, far, away
2006-12-18 17:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋