What do you think of this sad story about my life???? Please read, thank you...?

Question

Be straight with me, I want to know what you really think, not what you think i want you to say.
Ok here goes...

My family went on a vacation this summer, and we were spending a week at my cousin's house in Annapolis. On maybe the fourth day, me and my cousin were talking about school (she was going off to college in Hawaii (where I live)). Somehow, the conversation turned to being about friends, and I was asked to name my friends In school (I'd just finished my second year of college). At that moment, I came to realise that I didn't have any friends, that I had probably gone several days the previous semester without saying a single word at school. I kept avoiding her question, because I didn't want to say "I don't have any friends", but she kept asking me and asking me. Finally, I ended up naming a couple random people that I don't even know, and making up a couple names. I was crushed inside; ever since then, I have become at times very depressed about being so shy and alone....

Answer 1

You've shut yourself off from the rest of the kids at school, whether you've realised that your doing it or not.
Have you been too busy lately or too stressed about issues that you don't have time to make friends?
Don't be shy in the coming semester to talk to the people you sit next to in classes, or introduce yourself and sit with some people at lunch.
Having friends is one of the most priceless things anyone can have.

Answer 2

There's nothing wrong with being alone.... as long as you're not lonely. Decide whether you're lonely or not before you do something you'll regret.
If you truly are lonely and want to make friends, just be yourself. If somebody makes a comment in class that you agree with, say so. Be a little more outspoken without being obnoxious, rude, or phony.
Hang around a coffee bar that plays your kind if music.... anything of the sort. Just be yourself so you're making friends who are your friends, not some pretend person's.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

wow its nice to know im not the only one. I just completed my first year at varsity and went there without any friends from highschool.in highschool i had plenty friends as well as a group of close friends since childhood( we are now not as close) but in varsity i didnt seem to get on with any one people seemed to click together in groups especially those living on campus and by the end of the year i had only met a few people that i had the odd conversation with but no friends.really strange and hard fro me because i always had plenty. im hoping for a better year next and im going to make more effort to socialise.think you should the same.

Answer 4

been there, done that... don't worry! i'm sure you're a great person and will find people with the same interests... try not to be so shy, if you see someone alone go talk to them (i say alone because it's easier to make contact), who knows that person may be in the same situation?!
i know it's hard, believe me, i've been through the same, but you will get over that... you'll meet lots people and be very happy!
if you ever feel lonely, you can email me..i'll answer...
best wishes and good luck!

Answer 5

Start goin to parties man, show off your drinking skills! I bet you'll make some friends fast. And who dosent love a guy from Hawaii?

Answer 6

Just try being more talkitive. Easy as that. Try find someone who you have things in common with.
Best Wishes.

Answer 7

get out, go to a couple or clubs, or ball games, or wal mart!!!!!!!!! stop being so shy!!! friends are awesome and everyone needs a dozen or two!!

Answer 8

YOU REALLY NEED TO SEEK HELP. FOR YOU TO NOT REALIZE YOU DO NOT TALK TO PEOPLE THIS LATE IN THE GAME I WOULD BE WORRIED. PLEASE GET HELP

Answer 9

awww wut a low life