My sister is married 15 years and she has been cheating on him for 3 years and he knew it. But her husband thinks she stopped. She is still cheating! I went to visit her (a trip by plane) last month and there was a big party at her house and I was involved with one of the guys that was invited, kissing, touching, etc. I am not married and this guy wasn't either (This guy is friends with my sisters husband). Well Most of us passed out and when I woke up, I was naked next to the guy I danced with most of the night. Of course he took advantage of me!! But my sister and her husband talked behind my back calling me a slut, whore, tramp, easy! I flew home without opening my mouth about how my sister is MARRIED and cheating! Do you think I should tell my sister's husband exactly what my sister is doing? Or mind my business and let them continue thinking I'm a slut (am I)?
2006-12-18 08:30:50 · 17 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People have different opinions about others.you know what or who you are and it does not matter what other people think. who cares what they think of you or what they say about you. you should just stop visiting your sister and mind your own business, believe me sooner or later her husband will find out about her just a matter of time. Dont worry about it and just live your life and dont worry about what people say about you or think of you, just be happy and live for yourself...
2006-12-18 08:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well since your sister isnt being a supportive loving sister to you. Yes you should be honest and tell her husband the truth. But first you should like catch her in the act before you go telling him. Because with evidence, he will then believe you. Then he will know for sure who the real tramp is.
No honey, you are not a tramp. You were just having fun at a party and things happen when you are drunk and having fun. You are an adult and what you do with your life is your business not anyone elses. Especially not your brother in law/ or sister.
I hope everything works out for you. And be straight with you brother in law okay. He has every right to know what your sister is up to.
2006-12-18 08:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You feel 'like' betraying your sister after a year of doing that! Where the hell is your conscience? Get out of this mess immediately. Don't disclose to your sister. Any sensible lady should hate you after hearing all this.
2016-05-23 05:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are! why would you get drunk to the point where some guy takes advantage of you? Don't you respect yourself? I don't think that you should tell your brother in law about your sister, because its non of your business, and I don't think that they should be talking about you that way either, but you should be careful, you never know what could happen, what if next time you do that you end up dead? You better watch your step!
2006-12-18 09:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your motivation in telling him has nothing to do with concern for him or his marriage. You've known your sister is cheating for quite a while and said nothing. Now all of a sudden because they called you a sl*t you want to tell on her. Its not right because first your doing it for the wrong reason and second she is your sister. Are you a sl*t ? I hate that word and would never call another female that but you are a little easy. I dont understand having sex with someone you just met. That's kind of nasty to me.
2006-12-18 08:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ewww what a bi t ch! You shouldn't even talk to her anymore or for a while. If he went there and she went there with a hypocritical comment like that beings how your single and made a mistake (that should NOT happen again) then F that! You shouldn't even have to consider acknowledging their existence. Let them be jerks! Cuz ur not.
2006-12-18 08:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, but you are a tramp too. You need to grow up and not go to parties and fool around with guys and get wasted to the point where you are waking up naked next to them.
2006-12-18 08:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur not!! YOUR SISTER IS!! Dont let urself think u r. And just tell ur sis if she doesnt shut her effin mouth and stop calling u that then u will tell her husband
2006-12-18 08:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u gong to accomplish by breaking Ur sisters marriage up ? Ur self respect?
2006-12-18 08:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by amal L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALL YOUR SISTER SHE NEEDS TO STOP POINTING HER FINGER AT YOU BECAUSE SHE HAS 3 POINTING BACK AT HER. LET HER KNOW THAT IF SHE COULD RESPECT YOUR DECISIONS YOUR GONNA **** HER WORLD UP! BESIDES THAT STAY OUT OF IT!!! MAYBE I'LL SEE HER ON MAURY OR JERRY. PLAY IN
2006-12-18 08:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by APRILMAE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋