I changed custody about 5 years ago to my ex husband long story sence then he moved to CA. he is not giving me my visitions and i have talked with my son no more than 6 times and when i do talk with him they r always in the back ground telling him to get off the phone I miss my son so much and cry for him alot every day,I have filed motions on my own befor but it was for him not giving me my visit that ended him with a warent and the judge said this calls for a change of custody I have some money but also alot of bills dont have enough to pay a lawyer so i need help to file this motion can any one help..??
2006-12-18 08:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by lundie_g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Contact your states legal aid assoc. for any pro-bono attorneys in your area or contact a Paralegal who can help you for a whole lot less than an atty and is just as good. I can tell you from experience that the courts will probably turn you down due to numerous motions filed before now and unless you have real concrete evidnece proving your ex unfit like accused and charged of child or drug/mental abuse. The courts may view this as harassment between two divorced people and is a waste of the courts time unless you can prove the above and this is definitely the last time and that your the better parent for your children. Violation of visitation rights and fewer phone calls wont justify changing custody this time. But if you feel you have a strong case, then file it yourself again and save your money as I have a feeling youll need it soon. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-18 08:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you probably did the right element. your little ones are likely afraid. They see him hurting his spouse, someone he's suposed to love , they'd concern he will damage them too. also, you've a tendency to settle for what you strengthen up round. in the adventure that they see this they're going to both do it themselves or finally end up in abusive relationships. Your activity as a figure is to do the perfect on your little ones. conserving them out of a risky issue is the right area of do. He desires help and a choose will likely order supervised visits and anger administration. enable the courtroom order it, this way he can deny all he needs, he could get help.
2016-11-27 02:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not giving you your visitations call the police and file a report.
2006-12-18 08:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋