to see if i would get more hits then with my picture (iwas getting non) and it worked but I really can't make any dates because they are expecting to see him . What should i do?
2006-12-18 08:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by crta12000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ha.. that's funny. Just don't respond or tell them that you're suddenly moving out of the area or something. And maybe work on taking some good pictures of yourself to post.
2006-12-18 08:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Tough one here. Did you tell your bil this? Retract that picture and tell all the women you talked with the truth. All you can do is say you are sorry to everyone involved. You disrespected yourself. Looks are not everything. Trust and loyalty is. Am sure you look great. Work on your self image. You did as a prank. You will learn from. Glad you asked the question. You will be fine am sure. A better man after is over by owning up to what you did. Good luck to you and all involved.
2006-12-18 08:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said in your question what you need to do. You clearly can't go on a date with someone who thinks you are someone else. Be who you are and someone will love you. I know that sounds cliche, but it really is true. I am a firm believer that there are thousands of people out in the world who are attracted to any given person. Maybe you need to try a different site, or other avenues to meet women. Maybe try a new picture of yourself. Take time to prepare for the photo, and make yourself look as good as you can. If you need to get your pic done by a professional, then do that. Do you really want to date someone who is so consumed by looks that they neglect to get to know who you are? In psychological research it is shown that women are attracted to men who appear to be good providers. Dress up in a suit, and groom yourself like you would for a professional job interview. Someone will find you attractive, because in some way you are (everyone is).
Something else to try is consuming yourself in what you love to do. If you are into cooking, take a cooking class where you can meet other people. Join clubs, or take classes at your local community college or rec center. Get out there, and do what you love. This way you can find someone who you know you already have something in common with. Plus, when you are happy you become more attractive to women.
2006-12-18 08:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by CriticalThinkX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy....put YOUR picture back up and be honest. you can't expect anything good to come out of this. and since he's your BROTHER-IN-LAW...ummm well what happens if one of his wife's friends sees the picture and goes and tells her that her hubby is looking for a date on the web???? Yeah take the picture down and put yours back up and just be patient.
2006-12-18 08:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by TSen81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete that photo for now.
Go to glamour shots and get a really good flattering photo of yourself.
Ask them to touch up the photo to make you look more appealing, then post THAT photo.
It sounds like a good plan to me.
No one ever expects a person to look as good in person, as in the photo.
Good Luck!
2006-12-18 08:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha wow. thats hilarious. Um...idk what to say this is a hard one. Just meet them and then be like "Wow. its a photoshop miracle!". i hope it works...
2006-12-18 08:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by ugotquestion? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's funny ....... ummmm ... put your picture back up
2006-12-18 08:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋