When me and my ex bf broke up, he promised that we'd be together again oneday. Even though he has a gf he still "leads me on" and i feel that theres some kinda of chemistry between us still. So should i wait for him still? or do you think i should just give up?
2006-12-18 08:26:59 · 12 answers · asked by ohhh_retro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex does pretty much the same thing im not putting everything on hold for him while he makes up his mind work on yourself do things you were never able to do before go out spend some money on you for a change basically let him go for now if it is really meant to be maybe you will still have a place for him later dont give up on hope but just see how it goes in the cards
2006-12-18 08:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.....the we will be together oneday line is a bunch of bull. he wants to be able to move on and be with other people but he wants to sit around and wait and not date anyone else. since you guys have a history there will probably always be chemistry but his current behavior should show you how he really is.
2006-12-18 08:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should put your life on hold for someone, especially if they are already in a relationship. If the two of you are meant to be together, then you will be. But you can't just wait around for it to happen because you never know if someone out there that would be better for you is waiting for you! He should understand that, especially since he already is involved with someone else. Honestly, it seems that he's trying to keep you around "just in case" it doesn't work out with his current one. Don't do that to yourself
2006-12-18 08:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this guy is keeping you in reserve as a "backup gf" in case things don't work out with the girl he's with now. It is disrespectful to you and her, and could be a sign that he's a cheater. You should move on and find someone who wants you to be his one and only instead of his second choice.
2006-12-18 08:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ohhh, Walk away from this whole thing. If you were meant to be together,you would be now.
Clowmy
2006-12-18 08:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok where do i start ok thats a hard one i went through that too.. its hard i know but to tell u the truth i dont want to hurt ur feelings he wants both of you rite now and if his new lady dumps him he is gonna run. why did u guys break up?????
but you know wat on the real through mabey he is not i feel if u guys broke u0p cuz of ur mom or dad he stil wants you deep down in side his new lady is the rebond and if he breaks up wit her u will be ther one talk too him ok U REALLY NEED TO TALK TO HIM and tell me wat happens after cuz i feel im gonna go through that pretty soon
2006-12-18 08:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's one of the sweet, honest guys than he's probally not lying, but if he's a pig-headed *** hole than he probally is lying. it also depends on how long u've been waiting. so i would say wait a little bit longer, than talk to him, depending on what he says either wait longer, or give up.
2006-12-18 08:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the man in the relationship, you need to work around his time schedule. Don't pressure him for anything.
2006-12-18 08:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give up, and if he comes back good for u if not u already gave up.
2006-12-18 08:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by AAYY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-12-18 08:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋