He is always the one that initiates it.
2006-12-18 08:19:34 · 37 answers · asked by Minniex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"he is always the one that initiates it"
oh and he MAKES you reply too I bet !
Consider what sort of woman you ARE to encourage a man to lie to his girlfriend
and consider what sort of man would indulge himself in such a way.
Time to take a good look at the situation, i would suggest! What advice would YOU give to a friend in the same position? AND how would u feel about YOUR boyfriend if he were doing the same!
All in all i think you KNOW what u are doing isn't right.
If you continue please just be prepared to face the consequences!
Good luck either way hun
Debby x
2006-12-18 08:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest its a bit cheap and seedy, he obviously has no respect for you if he sees you as his text mistress, save yourself some dignity and save it for a man whos really into you, this man clearly wants to have his cake and eat it!!!!!
He is the one who initiates it? by this you mean he says jump and you say how high? why are you giving into him, and tell me, does it make you feel good afterwards? (it cant do surely) a taken loser is using you...i suppose you are using him in a way...but come on...you can DO miles better...
And for you to be carrying on with him with this texting business, says alot about the lack of respect he has for his girlfriend, how would you feel? if your man did the dirty?
I reckon you should end it,and ditch the loser, he thinks hes still got it going on, in the fact he can use YOU whenever he wants for a cheap thrill, when infact hes an insecure tosser who doesnt have anything better to do with his time...
Keep your dignity love, he isnt worth it...
2006-12-18 08:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol off course its wrong.would you like it if you had a boyfriend and some tart was texting him dirty jokes NO-NO NO i didn't think so ...so why do it do you Fancie him ,hes a low life cause i bet if it was his girlfriend having dirty text messages from other bloke i bet he would hit the roof ..sweet don't do it find your self your own guy and text him as many dirty jokes as you want
2006-12-18 08:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his girlfriend is a friend of yours, Then it is wrong !!
If you are looking for a lasting relationship with this bloke, Then it is wrong !!
If you have a partner, Then it is wrong !!
If it is costing you alot of money to send the texts and is putting you in debt, Then it is wrong !!
If it is stopping you getting it on with your life, Then it is wrong !!
If you are looking for a christmas bunk up with this bloke, Then it is ................................... Right :)
Easy as that. Glad to be of help
2006-12-18 08:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it in the past with a very attached man and given the choice I would not do it again. Reason being that if I were the girlfriend I would be livid that my boyf is dirty texting/emailing another girl.
Think how you would feel if you were his girlfriend.
Take care.
2006-12-18 08:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like a girl sending dirty texts to your man whom you love and really care about?
2006-12-18 10:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
Its only okay aslong as no one is getting hurt by it. If his girlfriend is insecure or if she really HAS got something to worry about, then i think its wrong.
How would you feel if you was with a man (and really liked him) then discovered he was getting dirty texts from another woman????
2006-12-18 08:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by colour-pink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way - would you like another woman to send dirty texts to your boyfriend?
2006-12-18 08:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by KB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if he initiates it you still have a choice...you do not have to let him pull the strings.
The very fact that you ask shows that you are not happy with what you are doing......if you were, you woul not be asking.
You don't really need telling, do you?
2006-12-18 08:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he's a jerk. It is wrong, and you should ensure he knows that it is inappropriate behavior for someone in a relationship, and that you won't participate in it.
After all, you wouldn't want your boyfriend to send dirty texts to other girls, would you?
2006-12-18 08:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by lisa_tilton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋