I don't mean to, but sometimes if someone tells me i look pretty, and i tell my boyfriend someone told me that, he gets jealous. but i don't flirt with anyone else...ever!.. so is it bad if he gets jealous? or is it ok to make him jealous sometimes?
2006-12-18 08:19:49 · 33 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hunnie it's good to make them jealous once in awhile...you find out how much they care..Go for it!!!
2006-12-18 08:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never make him jealous on purpose. He doesn't need to know about other men telling you you're pretty as long as you're not flirting or asking for it. If you're telling him on purpose it could be a sign of a deeper problem like your own self esteem or maybe your boyfriend is not making you feel appreciated enough. Address the issue rather than causing new issues.
2006-12-18 08:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not ok to do that to him, you will only push him away from you because he will start to loose trust. Think of yourself in his position, would you like to hear him tell you every time a girl complimented him? It will cause a break up in the end, and if thats not what you want then you shouldn't do it. He really shouldn't get jealous if he trust you, but don't throw it in his face everytime it happens.
2006-12-18 08:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Steve S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, he has insecurity issues. He should be happy at the fact that someone finds his woman attractive. Even if you flirt, there is nothing wrong with it. As long as you remain monogamous (depending on the couple, there are different rules), and don't cross any established boudaries you should be fine. I think he also has trust issues, if you aren't able to share your day with him without him getting jealous.....Perhaps you should monitor him more closely. perhaps he is the one who is crossing a boundary, and he is overly jealous to cover it up????
2006-12-18 08:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by fish011481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew this not so good looking girl (we'll call her Mary) and this hot hot guy (we will call him Larry). Larry was so into Mary and when they went on their first date they went to a club. I was in the restroom with Mary and she said "I am gonna make him jealous". She did exactly that...you know what happened? Larry ended up leaving and never ever called her again.
The moral of this story...don't try to get someone jealous because it is immature and that you have your own insecurities of attention.
2006-12-18 08:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a powerful and negative emotion. If he's getting jealous just because someone told you that you were pretty, then that's his problem. You shouldn't feel bad about it.
2006-12-18 08:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by somewherein72 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Though it does feel good to know that someone gets "jealous" about us, it'll just fuel the fire into something bigger.
How would you like it if some woman kept telling him how hot he is and then told you?
We women need to learn to keep stuff to ourselves. People don't like head games.
2006-12-18 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by cute_chocolate_buggie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gets jealous that easily the best thing to do is do your best to not make him jealous. Sometimes it can ruin a good relationship.
2006-12-18 08:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by TSen81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your boyfriend. Jealousy is not a good feeling, and sometimes (both men and women) will take that as an indication that they need to control their partner, sometimes violently. So the adversity could be shared between both of you, possibly with you bearing the greater brunt (not to say that THAT is right).
2006-12-18 08:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it a bad thing to flaunt other men attraction to you in your boyfriend's face. How would you like it; if your boyfriend told you that other women told him his is attractive on a daily basis.
I think to tell him once his suffice. You want to keep your boyfriend on his toes. However, telling him on a constant basis will make him feel insecure, and venture out to other women.
He will assume that you are talking to these men because, come on we as women like men to flirt with us. It makes us feel important, and desirable at the time.
2006-12-18 08:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Meko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't cheat on him or make him jealous on purpose, then it's not bad on your part. If your smokin', your gunna get comments but just dont tell him about them. Also he might be worried about you leaving him for some better guy, just reassure him i guess lol
2006-12-18 08:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋