they only have 4 mounths of marriage'is there a reason i should be worried? We get along very nice,they are living with me,please tell me it's ok.
2006-12-18 08:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by genie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well genie you have to let her and her husband make they on decisions, including your daughter-in-law, if she loves her husband she will be fine let her handle that in her own way. She will make mistakes in life you will not be able to control what happens all he time. let het learn on her own, that way life experiences is the best teacher. She will be fine just sit back and observe.
2006-12-18 08:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Raynette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 11:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by riesgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. 4 months and she's already gabbing with other guys on her cell....well, that may not be a good sign, but then I may be paranoid... see, this is a hard area, due to privacy issues. If there's a way you can verify without asking who's she's talking to, that'd be great. What's her occupation? Maybe she's in a field where she takes call from mostly men, like sales or advertising, and these fellows are just clients and/or coworkers.
2006-12-18 08:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by StantheMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't know who she's talking to or what she's talking about, but it is definitely none of your business. No matter what - this is your son's life. He chose to marry this woman, and from here on out you need to be respectful of their lives.
Speaking from personal experience - butt out. My mother-in-law interfered with my marriage (while we were living with her) and ended up creating a rift between her and us. She made our marriage her business, and things just haven't been quite right since.
You don't want to accuse anyone of doing something, especially since you have no proof she is doing anything wrong.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-18 08:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Genie, you gotta mind your own beeswax on this one. Don't even go there! Your son has to work this one out for himself. Chances are, if she's talking to people right in front of you then it's perfectly innocent. Otherwise, wouldn't she be trying to hide it a little better?
2006-12-18 08:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can MENTION it to your son, but be careful. Don't be one of those psycho mother in laws.
Maybe there is a reason? I don't know. It's about 1% your business 99% not.
2006-12-18 08:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you get along really good talk to her about it try to be a little more in their life with out not being wanted. try to be more in her conversations but if she starts to get mad then back off.
2006-12-18 08:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. It's your sons marriage. He probably knew she was talking to them before they even got married. Don't sweat it. You'll only create problems if you accuse her or get too nosey. You feel me?
2006-12-18 08:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have some reason to doubt her? Otherwise, stay out of it.
2006-12-18 08:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your son think of it. If it makes him uncomfortable, she should stop.
2006-12-18 08:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋