Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

My sister gets really mad at me for stupid things like not giving the pencil to her or when she gets in trouble for being late to school,I don't say anything and my mom yells at her.Same thing happened to me (the school thing),my mom yelled at me and my sister did too,she started saying 'Oh your so stupid'..She started telling her friends all this bullshit about me and she wont stop it.Shes hypocritical and is very annoying.Sometimes shes okay...but I hate her.What should i do?

2006-12-17 17:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is a girl and they use to date. He deny's anything happened but she says he told her he wants her back????? I really love him what do I do? Believe him or her? We have been together for a little over a year.

2006-12-17 17:43:35 · 1 answers · asked by thompson j 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so the other night my friend and I met up and had dinner and were going to go to a movie. However, he had to be somewhere else and the movie wouldn't be until late - so he suggested taking me somewhere that he described as "somewhere you would take your boy/girl fried" then he took me to look at christmas lights and when I was talking to him about all the neat places my dad takes me when I go visit him (my dad lives in a big city) my friend right after that took me to a coffee house bought me a hot chocolate and told me that he thought of this when I told him about my dad - then before we split for the night he wanted to make plans or else it would be another two weeks before we see eachother again - I'm confused - does he like me or is he just a nice guy? We are really close friends and I wouldn't want anything to ruin it - but I think I might like him...

2006-12-17 17:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am starting a new job tomorrow, I'll be working 12am-8am. and my boyfriend works from 7am-4pm. I need the money, is there a way that can make this easier not only on him, but on the both of us? we've been together for 1year and 1/2. and livning together for 3 months. we have always breathed the same air, gone to bed together, and woken up together. is this more than what I am bargaining for?

2006-12-17 17:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by Zig 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

um... im only 14 but guys are always taking advantage of me. i have been sexually harrased more times than i can count, and it turns out that my ex didnt even like me in the first place, and he just asked me out cause he was desperate, so i dumped him. i am really nice, and i just feel like i will never meet someone who actually cares about my feelings and doesnt use me. please help.

2006-12-17 17:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey,
ive been dating my girlfriend for like 6 months now and she says she loves me more than shes ever loved any one, but she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 1/2 years about 3 months before we started dating. everytime i think about her ex in any way, it really upsets me. they dont even ever speak anymore and she swears she hates him. im not sure if im jealous or what my deal is, but whenever i think about him being with her and her saying she loved him it drives me crazy...is this normal? what do i do??

2006-12-17 17:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We know it is right and we plan on getting married in a year. In a year we will be attending the same college, and be ready financially and emotionally. I've been doing searches to get ideas for themes and have discovered most people are much older than we are. We are both 19 right now. Neither of us believe in divorce and we have discussed everything that should be discussed before a couple gets married. I read answers to similar questions and discovered most people said "what's the rush," but if you feel it's right in all aspects, is it wrong not to wait?

2006-12-17 17:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Marriage & Divorce

which do you prefer? Persian or Asian? and why

2006-12-17 17:39:54 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:39:46 · 16 answers · asked by jmk 2 in Singles & Dating

People keep saying to get the attention of a special someone (say a woman) you need to "show her that she is missing something". What does this mean and how could I possibly know where to start? I thought the whole idea in pursuing a woman was to learn more about them. Can someone shed light on this and provide perhaps some examples? Much appreciated :)

2006-12-17 17:37:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Purely hypothetical situation: if you thought your bf/gf (I was going to include spouse, but I guess a committment is involved there, no question) needed to clean their lives up (pretty significant changes), what would you say to them (assuming they had yet to acknowledge they had a problem, but not to say they didn't recognize it)? Would you say something carefully to try and get them to seek help? Would you tell them straight up, get help or goodbye? Or maybe even just leave w/out a word? (I guess also assume the relationship is about dried up anyways but care and hope they get help for themselves in the future)

2006-12-17 17:37:35 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Family members constantly tell me this. for the most part is true. I hate people. I don't have friends, I have no desire to make friends, and I don't think I miss having friends. I think most people are plastic and only pretend to be interested in what you are saying. I see no need to waste my precious time with people that I don't enjoy being around. It is rare that I ever click with anyone. And if I do click I remain friends for only a short time. There is always something that i end up hating about them. I'm not into social gatherings. Honestly, I dread the holidays where I find myself having to go to my spouse's family get together and sit and open presents from people that I barely speak to during the year. and some that I know hate me. If I meet you, I probably won't like you. I don't like to leave my house unless I absolutely have to. My kids and husband are my life and I have no need for outside stimulation. is this strange? My family calls me 'special' lol

2006-12-17 17:36:30 · 17 answers · asked by stop_staring_please 4 in Friends

This guy has said he really likes me and wants to go out several weeks ago. I have put him off then since I don't know what I want. He recently told me that he has went out with another girl, but he claimed that it doesn't mean she is his GF or anything. He leaves it as that.

Really, I still don't know whether I want a relationship with him. I know when he told me he went out with some girls, I got all quietly upset about it. What should I do? I don't even know whether I want to date him though.

2006-12-17 17:36:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just asked the question why do so many young single women get pregnant these days. I am not talking about teens. I am talking about 18 and over. Young single WOMEN working at 6 dollar an hour jobs with piece of sh*t cars and relying on mom and dad to help support them and they don't have enough sense to use birth control! You can get free birth control at most human resource offices. There is truly no excuse.

2006-12-17 17:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been together for almost a year now. We started being intimate after the 1st month, and have been intimate on a regular bases ever since. Two months ago, and after 9 months of having sex, now she says we can't have sex anymore until we get married. She feels that spiritually, it is wrong and that love will get us through this. I love my gf very much, but not a day goes by where i'm not upset by this decision in which i didn't get a say so in it. She always asks me to massage her back / shoulders and feet, almost every night, and I do. Am I wrong in thinking WTF? Here I am doing what "you" want, but I want a little intimacy and I'm screwed till were married? Am I being selfish about this? I don't believe in cheating, and I don't want to break up with her over this either. But at the same time, i'm becoming very sexually frustrated, and her only advice she gave me was bascially, to go play with myself.

2006-12-17 17:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by frustrated_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend and I've been going out for some time now. We really love each other. I know he's obsessed for me. Yesterday, it came up in the conversation, and he told me that while he loved me, but I was still with my ex boyfriend, he masturbated thinking about other girls(porn). I was tottally chocked! I'm sorry if this question is weird, but i dont mean no harm, i really, really need an answer. I really love him... and I wasnt in love with him at the time... but still, its disgusting! What do you think I should do? :(

2006-12-17 17:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:33:16 · 31 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They have me listed as my e.mail name.

2006-12-17 17:31:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 17:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:30:05 · 18 answers · asked by Joe C 2 in Weddings

My girlfriend has a nasty habit of ignoring me when she is with her family.
I have done my best to explain to her that I feel unappreciated when she acts as if she is too busy to call me when she is with her family.
(Sometimes all I want is a simple "hello"; and she knows that).

She always makes me feel as if I am being too clingy and expecting too much from her when I complain; yet she has no problem calling ME when I'm with MY family.--AND she expects me to talk to her.

Anyway, I stopped calling her altogether when she is with her family. I stopped acting so clingy, and now I just wait for her to call me when she isn't so busy.

So why is she acting like I've done something wrong?
Isn't that what she wanted?

She is accusing me of playing games; but I think that I am merely adapting to the treatment that she gives me.


Women, please give me some insight.

2006-12-17 17:30:03 · 17 answers · asked by negrito con sabor 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:28:53 · 3 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 17:28:53 · 16 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

cuz he already knows i love him..but i want to do somthing special to SHOW him i love him. cuz i tell him all the time thats why i want to show him...any ideas??


THanks.

2006-12-17 17:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

That there must be something wrong with you in order for a person to cheat on you in the first place.

2006-12-17 17:27:43 · 16 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is coming home from iraq for 2 weeks for our anniversary.... im already renting the hotel room we had for our honeymoon... and of ya know lol bc of him leaving again for 6 months... but what else can i do to make him feel special and that he is always loved? please help me guys are complicated on what to get stuff for. he is not to crazy about jewelry so no on that...thank you

2006-12-17 17:25:15 · 9 answers · asked by armybrat529 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive known about this one girl for a few months and thought she was pretty cute for her age, now she is in 8th grade and i am in 10th. She goes to middle school im in highschool. I would never think of dating a girl that much younger than me but she is probably the cutest girl ive ever met and the most perfect personality i can imagine. shes an angel. She seems more mature than most kids her age. anyway, her brother is in 11th grade and i see him around at school a lot but we are not friends ive only met him once. Shes my sisters friend. I AM NOT A CREEP. She has a boyfriend, but "Always falls for the wrong guy". They went out before, broke up, now they are back together. I know for a fact that her brother doesnt like when his friends hit on her but i am a year younger than him so i dunno if that would make it different. I know ill see her many more times between now and summer, when shell be a freshman and itll be acceptable to date her. I just dont want to become.....(read on below)

2006-12-17 17:25:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:21:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said call me so we can hang out again. Is this the new thing now? You have to call guys? They don't want to call you after a first date?

2006-12-17 17:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by brown21 1 in Singles & Dating