That there must be something wrong with you in order for a person to cheat on you in the first place.
2006-12-17 17:27:43 · 16 answers · asked by noga 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They dont know what they are talking about...One party or the other doesn't have to be doing anything wrong to make the other cheat...Some just wonder and can not commit to one...They are the ones with the problem...
2006-12-17 17:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that paople think you must not have been doing something which caused the other to cheat. However, some people just cannot commit to one person (they don't want to), and they end up cheating at some point or another. Don't let them got to you (assuming it's you we're talking about). Good luck, keep your chin up, and try to have happy holidays! God bless.
2006-12-18 01:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not so much that people assume that, its that the person doing the cheating makes it seem that way. So when your hearing all these bad things about "you" from this person who makes themselves out to be saints, you sorta believe the saint.
2006-12-18 01:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, you can't control how others react. You can control how you react. So, honor yourself, respect yourself and realize you are the best person you know in the whole universe. Accept yourself as you are, because you're great. If someone "cheats" all they're doing is dishonoring you and dishonoring themselves to the extent they had made a commitment to you. If you have honored them with your affection, and they have accepted you and then turn to another knowing you will be hurt, they are dishonoring themselves and you. Dump them because they are not being honorable.
2006-12-18 01:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why else would you cheat....maybe you arent happy but if thats the case why cheat why not leave the person. Why do people have to cheat and hurt the people...
2006-12-18 01:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are fools, you arent the reason of a person cheating on you, a person cheated because they were a coward and didnt know how to communicate.
2006-12-18 01:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's something wrong with you in the fact that you chose some douchebag who would cheat on you for a boyfriend. Is it your fault, of course not. Whoever said that was trying to project that boy's own insecurities on yourself...
either that or you really did drive him to find another woman and was scared to break up with you, but I doubt you are that scary.
=D
2006-12-18 01:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never assume such a thing. I always assume if a guy has cheated on his girl, its usually because he has a little pecker. A women usually cheats because she is feeling ugly. The true victims are their partners, and it usually has nothing to do with them.
2006-12-18 01:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue why people assume that. but personally i think that theres something wrong with the cheater .. not with the person that got cheated on
2006-12-18 01:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by nicole t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. The one with the problem is the cheater. There is no excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy, you can leave the person.
2006-12-18 01:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋