My sister gets really mad at me for stupid things like not giving the pencil to her or when she gets in trouble for being late to school,I don't say anything and my mom yells at her.Same thing happened to me (the school thing),my mom yelled at me and my sister did too,she started saying 'Oh your so stupid'..She started telling her friends all this bullshit about me and she wont stop it.Shes hypocritical and is very annoying.Sometimes shes okay...but I hate her.What should i do?
2006-12-17 17:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
P.s Shes 18
2006-12-18 13:59:20 · update #1
P.s Shes 18
2006-12-18 13:59:29 · update #2
Growing up with some1 who seems to hate you can be a bit much, but stick it out. Pretty sure she'll grow out of it as you already have (even if she's older). Your going to need eachother one day (beleive it or not) and when that time comes, you'll be glad to have had her as a sister. Try keeping a distance when not at home. Soon you'll have different friends and new people to discuss your @home problems with.
you'll b ok........u sound pretty strong minded.
2006-12-17 17:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by $G$ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a counsellor to help you manage your reaction to this stressful situation.
You may be able to sort something out, but also, other people are responsible for their own lives and you cannot change other people if they don't want to change.
Sometimes you just need to bunk down and wait for the time when you are able to leave after high school etc.
In the mean time seek help to manage your own stress levels.
2006-12-18 01:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Piggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and give her the pencil. If she's saying really mean things around school tell your mom. It'll make her even madder, but your mom might know what to do.
2006-12-18 01:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by kadan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all hate our sisters, and go through these phases all the time, its totally normally, its mainly jelousy and getting what she wants, dont worry its a phase that ur sis is goin through and im sure she loves u and u love her, dont worry she'll come around, i mean for example myself, me and my sister i mean hated eachother we would beat eachother up to the point with golf club sticks (I swear this) and we could not stand eachother, then when i got married, and moved away i missed her and our relation ship got better, then she got married and now we both love eachother to death, and i miss her like crazy, and we just laugh at the bad things that happened between us, so im sure this day u and ur sis will love and be nice to eachother it just takes some time for a person to realize how much they mean to them, even the closest
2006-12-18 01:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with her. She is proably just "on edge". If this continues maybe she should seek proffesional help. Until you're sure, its probably just sister stuff that has gone just a little too far.
2006-12-18 01:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Asia Gabrielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your sister the pencil. Don't do stupid things. Maybe you have the problem. Let's fix you up first, and then worry about your sister and parents.
2006-12-18 01:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds to me like there is a lot of anger in your family.
2006-12-18 01:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to you parents about this.I do not know how old she is so I cannot really comment properly.
2006-12-18 04:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coupoles counseliong or avoidance. She's mean and nasty and needs pro help.
2006-12-18 01:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound normal at all ... try to get along better !
2006-12-18 04:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋