How can you forget about your boyfriend who broke up with you?

Answer 1

hit yourself on the head with a frying pan

Answer 2

My heart breaks for you. Only time can heal. Perhaps take on a new hobby, or call an old friend to get together. The most important thing is to allow yourself to be hurt. Once you accept the broken heart, you can move on. You will have many other boyfriends. Take care of yourself and happy holidays.

Answer 3

It depends because it relationship is different. Nonetheless, it will take some time to heal your heart. To start you need to avoid all contact with him for 2 months, because he is a "habit" that you need to break. If you continue talking to him, you will continue to fall into this deep circle of deception and wondering whether you made the right decision.

So spend some time with your girlfriends, family, and friends. They will be your support system as you get through these tough times.

Good luck!

Answer 4

You cant, you will have the memory of him in your mind and heart forever. When you care about someone, they will always share a special place in your heart, regardless of whether they are still around or not. But their memories do fade into the background of your life. If you move on with you life, spend time with friends and family, and eventually find someone new, you will see that you will think of them less and less. But you will also see that you will still remember him from time to time. And soon one day you will remember him, and not hurt any more. Slowly the pain will fade with the thoughts of him. Good luck, it hurts but all wounds will heal.

Answer 5

Time to get over the pain, and then really think about what you want in a relationship. I have a feeling that you will find that other guys fit the qualifications, some even better than your ex. Then, put yourself in a position to meet new people.

Good luck!

Answer 6

God, I wish I knew how to get over someone and fast! If there were some kind of over-the-counter pill for getting over crumby relationships... Honestly, and maybe this is a little counter-productive, but finding someone else is an excellent way to get over someone. Good ol' distraction. That or wait and wait to not care anymore. In any case, you need a little help from your friends.

Answer 7

Claire, when you have something on your mind and want to drive it out, sometimes it helps to drive it out with something similar. So, one answer is to go out with a bunch of guys in quick succession. Another way might be to sit down in a quiet place and really think about what happened with him, why it happened and decide you're really better off without him. I don't care who started the break up, if you did it's because you didn't want him anymore and if he did it's because he didn't want you anymore. Either way, somebody didn't want the relationship so why grieve over something that wasn't going to keep working? Study it, analyze it and consider yourself better off without him. Honor yourself and find somebody else.

Answer 8

Try doing things that don't involve couples. Sports, activities that keep you mind working, and things like that help.

What you want to avoid is co-dependency on a guy that wants little to do with you.

Answer 9

Dear Clair,

Only time does it. How long depends on how long and how deep your relationship was, and whether it was a healthy relationship. If you were emotionally needy for some reason, perhaps it was for self-esteem reasons, or your parents divorced and you needed the emotional support, or you were very healthy and simply permitted yourself to be vulnerable to him - opened yourself up to him both physically and emotionally - it will take a long time. Here's a tip though. When you're hurt like you are now, you won't be healthy again until you allow yourself to hurt as deeply and as long as you need to. It's kind of like a clog being stuck in a drain. You're the clog. In order for you to ever have a healthy relationship again, you have to figure out a way to get unclogged. If you immediately turn to someone else, the hurt from your first relationship will just be compartmentalized somewhere in your brain and won't be fixed. In fact, it will manifest itself (the hurt) in all future relationships and torpedo them. No, unfortunately when you get hurt, you need to get it all over you; hurt as deep and as long as you want/;need to. Scream at the moon, cry till you fall asleep, write in a journal or just on a piece of paper. Write how bad he made you feel, how you devoted yourself to him, how you exposed yourself to him, made yourself vulnerable to him and he betrayed you! Cuss him, call him names, miss him, yearn for him, need him, cry and scream and cry and scream for as long as it takes for you to finally emerge from the pipe. When you are finally through the pain and anger and loss, do something nice for yourself. Tell yourself that it's not you. Treat yourself to a manicure or a nice haircut, or a makeover or a good dinner etc. If you have girlfriends, invite them over for a "girl's night out." This alone won't heal your broken heart, but a little time will. But the only way you can be healthy, is to feel just as horrible as you need to feel, for as long as you need to feel it. Good luck to you! We've all been through it. It hurts bad. Nothing good about it. I wish I could make it go away, but I can't. It just hurts!

Answer 10

suround yourself with those who love you and care about you. call for a girlz night. And avoid this man who broke your heart. After all, "Out of sight out of mind"
Good luck

Answer 11

Time will heal. Get on with your life. I have had many many guys in my life. Rejection hurts but there are so many others out there.