Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. I am an only child, and he has a sister who is four years younger than him. It has been apparent to me from day one that his sister is the "favorite". Anyone who has been around my in-laws can see the favoritism that my MIL refuses to acknowledge.

Is there a way to speak with my MIL to make her see this unfair treatment?

2006-12-17 18:08:14 · 10 answers · asked by BritneyMarie 2 in Family

Okay, I've been seeing this girl--no, woman, and we're a pretty unlikely match really. But we mesh very well in a number of real ways, and I don't just mean sexually... We've had this screwy off and on again thing for several months. We can't seem to stay away from each other. But I feel like we may ultimately be doomed. The details are too numerous. It's tough because from the moment I first saw her I KNEW she was important. ****, I just don't know what to do. We can't go a week without some kind of problem. At the same time, we feel like we may be "it" for each other. Very difficult... What do you intelligent people think?

2006-12-17 18:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by 670000000mph 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been a couple for three months, and I've wanted to tell him that I love him for at least two weeks!

The problem is, I hear horror stories about girls who confess their feelings to their man and scare them off completely, so I'm extremely apprehensive.

I (21) am my boyfriend's (22) first girlfriend, so I expect a certain amount of confusion. For example, when we started dating, he already expected that we were a 'couple'.

Do you people have any advice for me? What should I say?

2006-12-17 18:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by sachi 1 in Singles & Dating

http://youtube.com/watch?v=-IrGh4_aRNM

How did the baby do that? How'd it happen?

2006-12-17 18:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by Hey-Ya 1 in Friends

I've been f***ing up in my relationship a lot recently....and it's all because of little things that i don't think are a big deal. But my loverly lover is getting hurt by it. If I f*** up again, I'm not sure if he's gonna stay with me.

what can I do to make things better??

I want him to be able to trust me completely....

2006-12-17 18:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in a joint family with my in-laws. i am a working women and want to live much better life alone with my husband for some-time. IS it possible that we can live alone and survive?

2006-12-17 18:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family

why is it that some familys have to hit u to show u they love u and some familys actually hug and say they love u? is it my fault do u think, cuse im bad and i make them mad? im sorry to be annoying and bother you all so much im just trying to wait for them to sleep b4 i can sleep and then ican elave in the morning after them n go ot the hosp which im gonna go in morning my ribs r swelled and my shoulder 2 im sorry for bothering people so much and im sory for being annoying and bad i wanna make sure i can take my stuff with me since they prolly will call the police im gonna pack my bag n get my sleeping bag to from the basement which is right by theyre room i took some tylenol n asprin to help and it has and im sorry im bothering people and im sorry its my fault tho so icant be mad i always look at em rong im to messy to annoying and im sorry u think ill go2group home? wat about siter& bro im really sory ill stop wit qustions sorry i never called the copsb4 not a kid that helps rite?

2006-12-17 18:01:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how should and face his family and him, and shuold i tell him take me back or should my parents dop me there or should i go alone??

2006-12-17 17:59:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bf online and i love him so much. actually we started as friends and never did i expect us to have gotten this far. we chat, exchange emails and talk over phone. he is very far eaway from me but both of us are holding on to what we have. i treat him like a real bf, everyday emailing him, texting him, but, he emails me once or twice a week only and texts me rarely. but there are times that i can feel he is not leading me on or somethin since he told me he has no interest in other woman but me. he tells me he loves me to death but he cant find enough time to communicate with me. am i just being too much or im becoming demanding already? it is because for me, if you love a person, no matter how busy you can get, you will find time communicating to him/her, it may not be every second of everyday but at least, you will exert effort just to show your loved ones that you care and love him/her even in a little way or a little note.

i hope you can advice me concerning this. ty!!!

2006-12-17 17:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like taking me out for shopping,

2006-12-17 17:54:47 · 28 answers · asked by PRISCILLA N 1 in Singles & Dating

When I married my husband the way I looked at him was with such a light and admiration. He made me feel so special, always thinking of me and us.....or so I thought. 2 weeks after we got married I found out he was talking to girls over the internet and has continued to do so off and on every 2-3 months for the entire 2 years we have been married. As time goes on it gets worse and worse, it has gotten to the point where he almost physically cheated on me. He had never admitted to anything I always just find out about it on my own. When I confront him he gets accusing 'why were you looking through my ****' or 'i do it because you......'. i am just curious if this time really is different and he does stop am i ever going to be able to be happy with him because of the pain he has caused me for so long? will i ever really be able to trust him? even if he stops mental/emotional abuse and infedelity will i ever be happy with him, will he ever be the man i need him to be or am i just nieve?

2006-12-17 17:54:14 · 20 answers · asked by jjwartemis85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 17:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been hiring a maid but flea with many reasons. I felt its unsecure to send my baby's to nursery. Do they really bad as wht i read/heard on news?Do they feed my kids ontime?and so on..

2006-12-17 17:52:31 · 13 answers · asked by CHeah COmel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend once told me that there is always someone that thinks about someone else is this true or just a load of bs? seems to me as it is bs as no one likes me

2006-12-17 17:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends think i have attitude problem and im way too moody and demanding.. which is not real me
everyone in my group has a boy friend i wud love to have one but im not desperate and im waiting for the right one...many guys proposed me till date they were all good looking n all but i didnt feel they r best for me.. i dont know whts wrong wid my friends but these days all my friends(girls specially) think tht if i will keep rejecting all these guys i will end up alone i have to adjust n no one can fit in my idea of perfect man ....well i dont think so but still shud i pick one or wait for the perfect match.....

2006-12-17 17:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by sonali 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 17:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sex before marriage is alwiz scary as we might feel guilty or get pregnant by accident. Isn't sex after marriage more pure and full with love & satisfaction?

2006-12-17 17:51:28 · 19 answers · asked by cute 1 in Singles & Dating

I seem to be stuck. As with most guys, I have my taste...my type of woman if you will. Its a biological thing, we all seem to be programmed with a certain type and we can't help but be attracted to that look. Mine, is blonde hair, blue eyes, cute, thin and a nice...well, upper area. I have acted on that instinct my whole life but for whatever reason any girl that looks like that has turned out to be TOTALLY CRAZY and self centered with bad values. Aren't there any good girls out there that fit this mold??

2006-12-17 17:51:10 · 18 answers · asked by allcharm97 2 in Singles & Dating

And would rather have it mean and hard?

2006-12-17 17:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl in mind is equally interested in finding a real answer to this question. I consider myself an honest and generous person. If I gave someone a gift then I would not ask them to return it to me except under extreme circumstances. I don't plan to get married until I can figure out how to maintain control of my financial assets (including assets I acquire during a marriage) both *during* and after a marriage (if it ends in divorce). I heard that *during* a marriage a man must get a signature from his wife to buy real estate or to make changes to his living trust. I prefer not being required by law to get a signature from my wife to invest or make decisions with my own personal funds. Is it possible to create an iron-clad prenup in California (or another state) that waives the wife's spousal rights to any control over the man's financial assets during and after a marriage should it end in divorce?

2006-12-17 17:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

crap...these are a few of mine! What are yours????

2006-12-17 17:50:51 · 9 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and if another woman blew his mind better than you doeven though you do things together he's never done with anyone wlse how do you know,and don't say ask they'lll say it you wouln't you reply that,I have one woman in particular who bothers me bad and he's been with quite a few befor me some we actually see and talk to and i can't get the picture outof my head

2006-12-17 17:50:00 · 14 answers · asked by Camy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When will "he" come into my life?
And how do I make this happen for myself?

2006-12-17 17:49:41 · 3 answers · asked by nicnakv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so it was my birthday yesterday and I asked my boyfriend to come to the movies with me ( we've only been going out a few weeks ) and he said ok. So when I got to the movies I called him to see where he was and he said he was "grounded". He does this all the time. Is he lying to me for some strange reason? Help???

2006-12-17 17:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Singles & Dating

besides snacks what other ideas do you have?
and do I need to wrap it up?how?

thanks!

2006-12-17 17:48:26 · 6 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have been seeing this guy for almost a year now. We live together and I have two kids from a previous marriage. A girl from his past that he hasn't talked to in over a year has been trying to contact him at his parents house. We live together, but his parents have given him the messages from her. He knew about this a few days ago but just told me today and I feel weird about it. When I ask questions he is very vague but he insists they were only friends...Should I be feeling jealous or strange about this or just let it go? I have no problems with him and girls...just her for some reason and don't know why...

2006-12-17 17:47:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was fourtunate this summer to have met a man who truly just excited my whole world. We would text the whole night away and in the morning he'd call me to say "good morning baby." He would come by just to see me, and sometimes he'd pick me up and take me places. I never knew such a man existed, one so beautiful inside. It's like he was made just for me. That was this summer, then school started back and ofcourse things slowed down a little between us, "school first" right? Eventually though, it stopped all together. It's been about a month and a half since we talked, and even longer since i've seen him.

I didn't think I was really that attached but these last few months have been the longest weeks of my life. The harder I try not to think of him, the more everything seems to remind me of him. Sometimes I think i'm going crazy or something. Nothing makes since anymore. And I just want to know why it hurts....so much..*

2006-12-17 17:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by jaylah* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I screw up everything with girls, they like me and I get shy then they quit talking to me eh.....My job is making me even more depressed because I see couples which hurts, because I have nobody myself. But right now there is a girl I like and she likes me, we've known each other for about 2 months, I need to talk to her to get to know her better but I know it's not gonna work, so I'm gonna give up and probably disappear from everywhere....

2006-12-17 17:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by Khaos 2 in Singles & Dating

Myhusband died 2 years ago in a car acident that killed him instantly and left me in a coma for three month and damaged my hearing.I havent been on a date since.My mother knows this guy and kind of set up a blind date for us.When she told me about it i freeked.But she said that i should start dating again.I know life goes on but Ryan was my life and how do i go on a date with out thinking about him the whole time.I dont think I am ready for this.I was talking to Ryans family about this and they all think that I shoud move on with my life.I have to say that I dont agree.How do you replace some one that ment every thing to you?

2006-12-17 17:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by x 1 in Singles & Dating