i live in a joint family with my in-laws. i am a working women and want to live much better life alone with my husband for some-time. IS it possible that we can live alone and survive?
2006-12-17 18:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes it is possible to live alone and survive.
While you are living with your family now make sure you save as much as you can. Make sure you keep and eye on your credit score and make sure you keep your credit in good condition.
while you are still living with your family try to pre pare things before you move out. Sort of like a hope chest of long ago. Buy things you think you will need and put them up,. So when you move out you will have things you need and will not have to buy them.
Towls, dishes, silverware, bedding, things like that.
When you do get ready to move out do NOT jump at the first place you find. Take your time. Look at as many places as you can. Find the best place for you and your husband.
If you can, while you are at home with family get an education. It will be easier when you are at home cause you have less bills and can focus on schooling.
Good Luck.
2006-12-17 18:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible . you both earn then what is the problem if you can finnancialy afford to live alone . but you have to convince your in-laws which is a very difficult step because you said that you live in a joint family
2006-12-18 03:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear sweetu
u r a married woman & ur thinking should go to think 4 long future no one ever knows what happens next just try to be happy in whatever god has given u may be he is thinking about ur new house. but being in a joint family is lucky bcoz many people to take care
2006-12-21 15:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for sharing your most intimate thoughts. start with a determination that you 'will' live nuclear in time to come. second talk it out with your husband as he's the one you want to live alone with. if he feels the same too, great for you all, if he thinks otherwise you then have another issue to solve. but most of all i feel, the important thing here is ''why do you want to relocate separate?'' there seems to be a deeper problem that you may want to resolve but are subconsciously running away from. Start with your spouse and talk instead of fretting over this thought. you will find yourself in a far happier state of mind then.
2006-12-18 02:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can have your own house & live happily. But you need to work hard and earn enough money before you move out from your in-laws.
2006-12-18 04:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cave Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are both working it should be easy. With team work, each others support, understanding and patients you and your husband can conquer the all adversities. This is the recipe for survival.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 02:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse it is possible..
u have not mentioned which place u wanna live and how much u earn,
but irrespective of these facts it is possible for u to buy a new house, and these days there r so many banks ready to give home loan,..
do let me kn when u buy a new house
enjoy,
2006-12-18 02:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rohit Bindal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can if you have the money to live like you want to.
2006-12-18 02:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after some years ur children will think on the same lines,so where will you be
2006-12-18 22:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by man_red58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
2006-12-18 03:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋