i have a bf online and i love him so much. actually we started as friends and never did i expect us to have gotten this far. we chat, exchange emails and talk over phone. he is very far eaway from me but both of us are holding on to what we have. i treat him like a real bf, everyday emailing him, texting him, but, he emails me once or twice a week only and texts me rarely. but there are times that i can feel he is not leading me on or somethin since he told me he has no interest in other woman but me. he tells me he loves me to death but he cant find enough time to communicate with me. am i just being too much or im becoming demanding already? it is because for me, if you love a person, no matter how busy you can get, you will find time communicating to him/her, it may not be every second of everyday but at least, you will exert effort just to show your loved ones that you care and love him/her even in a little way or a little note.
i hope you can advice me concerning this. ty!!!
2006-12-17 17:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh you really need to get a grip here...what they tell you on the net can and most likely be completely the opposite in real life. Do not fall for this. If he even had a care in the world he as you so put it would make time for you. Hes probably married w/2 kids and cant always accomodate you because of his obligations to his family. Get off the pc and go out and meet a touchable guy. Its alot more satisfing.
2006-12-17 18:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donot think you are asking to much or being demanding. I feel you are right, if a person loves you they will find time 2 talk or communicate in some way. try this, next time you talk to him tel him how you feel about it then maybe you can come up with a specific time that you can set aside and jst tlk every day or every other day, like maybe before you go to bed or something. I hope that helped, good luck.
2006-12-18 02:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by darkangelfallen89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u re totally right about time spending and time finding for the loved ones. i disagree with the rest - stop wasting life in front of computer. HE IS NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND. he is an image u made in your head. so go outside and try to find real friends. this guy of yours from the computer has probably done that by now, that's why he doesn't have time to waste at the computer
2006-12-18 02:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been Through this things & at the end you'll get dissapointed for sure. And if you think he's really such a nice & honest guy then he must have got busy sometimes thats why he dont mail you regularly.
2006-12-18 02:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this isn`t some old married dude? He probably can`t talk because he is with his wife.
2006-12-18 02:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many people who cannot express their feelings openly. your man seems to be that kind. give him time, and try to make out from his messages,what he wants to convey to you.. good luck.
2006-12-18 02:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad. Go outside.
2006-12-18 02:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a break. write him when he writes you not every day. protect yourself. he sounds like he's just playing
2006-12-18 02:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probly not as serious as you find a lokal dude
2006-12-18 02:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-12-18 02:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋