where are the good women!!?

Question

I seem to be stuck. As with most guys, I have my taste...my type of woman if you will. Its a biological thing, we all seem to be programmed with a certain type and we can't help but be attracted to that look. Mine, is blonde hair, blue eyes, cute, thin and a nice...well, upper area. I have acted on that instinct my whole life but for whatever reason any girl that looks like that has turned out to be TOTALLY CRAZY and self centered with bad values. Aren't there any good girls out there that fit this mold??

Answer 1

NO! They are all gold digging whores. Why do you think they concentrate on looking good?!?! The women you described are the one that try to get through life with their looks. They only want one thing. Your ATM card. You should be smart and string them along. You should pretend like you have money but never spend any on them.

Answer 2

I am a good girl with good values, but I do not fit your MOLD of her physical attributes. I am tall and thin with long, brown wavy hair and hazel eyes.

The problem isn't the women you date (they are partly the problem, but not 100%). You are also part of the problem. You already have a set MOLD that a girl has to fit. It seems to me you judge her looks before you judge her personality. You should probably get to know her better (figure out she is CRAZY with no values) before you date her just because she is blonde, cute and thin with blue eyes. That is just unreasonable and stupid.

Looks fade. Remember that.

Answer 3

Sounds like you're putting all your eggs in one basket, so to speak.

Try getting to know women who aren't exactly "your type" and see what happens. I'm not talking about going after the complete opposite to what you've described but instead of a blond you could try brunettes or redheads that fit the rest of your likes. Or you could, just as an experiment, actually go out with a few women who are the exact opposite of what you described.

If you've found that what you've been trying isn't working then it's unlikely that continuing the pattern will change things.

Answer 4

i would consider not being such a stereotypical man with high standards. You could potentially be the next Hitler with the whole "blonde hair and blue eyes". real women don't posess such qualitys, think outside the box and dont date bimbos.

by the way you can buy those types of girls at the store they are called barbies, they're plastic, and most of them happen to have blonde hair AND blue eyes. plus they are cheap. SOUNDS LIKE YOUR TYPE! see problem solved just go to the store and buy your type of girl for about, four big ones.

Answer 5

sounds to me like you need to readjust your instincts. I'd venture to say that if your taste led to disappointment then I'd pick another flavor. Who knows maybe the girl that will wind you stealing your heart is just the opposite. Go for nice down to earth girls, they're much better.

Answer 6

YOu need to break the mold, obviously it isnt working for you.
I used to only date guys over six one (as im five ten) and they were all dopes!
Go for the nromal girl, not a paris hilton wannnabe and you will get good results.

Answer 7

You're probably looking for your "dream girl." But one day, someone that probably won't even look like that will catch your eye and vice versa and all those "programmed thoughts" will go out the window.

Answer 8

It's probably because you don't fit their idea of what an attractive man is. You gotta open your mind, dude! You're basically judging a book by its cover. And everyone knows, that you shouldn't do that.

Answer 9

You have to hope for this good-looking chick to have at one time been a real dog. This way she doesn't have the attitude. Unless you have lots to offer, or at least cash, you are pretty much screwed (or not screwed in this case).
Otherwise, try overseas.
Good luck.

Answer 10

Yes there are, try Arizona State University or University of Southern California.