I was fourtunate this summer to have met a man who truly just excited my whole world. We would text the whole night away and in the morning he'd call me to say "good morning baby." He would come by just to see me, and sometimes he'd pick me up and take me places. I never knew such a man existed, one so beautiful inside. It's like he was made just for me. That was this summer, then school started back and ofcourse things slowed down a little between us, "school first" right? Eventually though, it stopped all together. It's been about a month and a half since we talked, and even longer since i've seen him.
I didn't think I was really that attached but these last few months have been the longest weeks of my life. The harder I try not to think of him, the more everything seems to remind me of him. Sometimes I think i'm going crazy or something. Nothing makes since anymore. And I just want to know why it hurts....so much..*
2006-12-17 17:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by jaylah* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because love is the something we all truly want. Love can heal, and break all at the same time. The pain is the one thing that can shake our world so strongly that even the people around us can feel it. But no matter what happens, love is the best thing you can ever experience in your whole entire life. Whether it be puppy love or the most passionate, intense, Heartfelt love you will ever know. Follow your heart, it will take you in the right direction.
2006-12-17 17:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by S-Darcy-81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was a little too good to be true. I think he was just wanting a good short time and go back to his so called normal life. You are unique in your own way. There isn't another you in this world. Pick yourself up girl, you are better than that. Have some faith also, I'll pray for you tonight. Sometimes men can be real jerks. If by chance he contacts you, don't let him back in your life. If you do he will be a total jerk and hurt you even worst than this time. Hang in there girl, you can get through this.
2006-12-17 17:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Different ages there is different meaning...
Why dont you view from that MR. side... Do you ever think he is what kind of man? is he still student like you?
Why you try not to think of him? Ask yourself. In deep of your heart you got the answer. Sometimes feeling hurt doesnt mean you love this guy, but you just feel lost on a great deal as you say he is a nice guy to you.
Or have you consider this guy treat every girl the same?Dont forget some people born to excited people life.
Dont ever love some 'man' untill they confess to you face to face.
2006-12-17 17:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sweety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the present, really. Keep thinking about the past or the future would make you very sad. It's our mind that control our feelings. I think you'd find someone new who is more suitable for you in reality. There's no such living dream, you know? And you will be the one who get most hurt as you set your expectation high.
Be good to yourself, love yourself and be cool. Nice guy is coming around, believe me!
2006-12-17 17:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection hurts. Especially when there's no real reason for it. I don't care how busy someone is, they can make a bit of time for someone they care about. The best thing you can do is throw yourself into a hobby or school and chalk it up to a summer romance. Even though he sounds like he was a great guy this summer, he doesn't sound all that great now. No one should just be dropped like that.
2006-12-17 17:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through this today after I just broke up with my girlfriend she would not come clean on the questions I asked her and not telling me the truth on a few things I discoverd.I've been spending the whole day upset about it.She wanted to do all the fun things I like to do never would tell me what she wanted to do.Lap sitting bed resting.Talking about family and plans to go places and do things.Now my world just got torn appart I'm not hurt just very mad.She also slowed down talking to me and stopped once confronted.
2006-12-17 17:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is very mysterious. But I know you can move on. Look for Mr.Next. He is somewhere out there. The man you met either died or moved on. You must also. It hurts so much because its like you got dumped. And when your the "dumpe" instead of the "dumper" it hurts. You must somehow get back together with him and then dump him. And you will feel better! Or move on :)
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-17 17:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is what we risk when we give a piece of ourselves into a relationship. While it is a risk, the reward is far better than the price.
Feel free to get over this, but don't give up. Your reward will come. Just keep your chin up and your faith in yourself firm.
2006-12-17 17:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because your so fond of him and he hasn't contacted you. You recognize he was something wonderful in your life and you miss him. Maybe you might look him up and see if he holds the same fondness for you or if he's moved on. Knowing this, even if turns out painful would at least give you closure. I wish you luck and happiness.
2006-12-17 17:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfulfilled expectations hurt a lot. YOu had hoped it wouild work out...evert ager stuff. Now it';s dead. Why not call him to see what's up risk the disappointment. Maybve he'll surprise you. If not, you have awoken part of you which can be reawokedn again.
2006-12-17 17:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋