Sex before marriage is alwiz scary as we might feel guilty or get pregnant by accident. Isn't sex after marriage more pure and full with love & satisfaction?
2006-12-17 17:51:28 · 19 answers · asked by cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex before marriage is always the most exciting because:
1. You two could get caught;
2. She could be pregnant;
3. She's "new," he's "new." Everything about each other is fresh and new. After marriage, no matter how good the sex is, it'll never be as "new" as it was before marriage;
5. It's "free," without commitment; what else in life could be better? If you have to marry him/her in order to get sex, where's the fun in that?
The truth is, if you wait to have sex until marriage you'll get the best of both worlds! It'll be new and you'll have the satisfaction and security of knowing that both of you made a legal, binding, potentially life long promise/commitment to each other, before having sex. That fact alone will make sex very special for both of you. Anything worth having, is worth waiting for. Have you heard that? It's true. For the woman, her body is sometimes the only thing she'll ever have to really give away. If she feels like she isn't getting a commitment for her special gift, that will make her feel trampy. Just wait. It'll be great! Good luck to you!
2006-12-17 18:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by KevinMack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes sex less exciting is not being emotionally involved first and if you are married then you have that connection and commitment. It's not like trying out a new car and the people that incourage that type of behavior are not likly to be looking to develope an enduring relationship. That's to bad too because really good sex is a learned process that is earned through experimentation, communication and practice, practice, practice!
2006-12-17 18:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy is never by accident. Have you ever heard of birth control or condoms? What the hell is the matter with you? If you wait until you are married, you will invariably be disappointed and later on, will invariably want to sleep with other partners.
I take it that you're religious. Well then, ask anybody in church. They will tell you that you are crazy to wait for marriage to have sex. It's just not smart. What if she's lousy in bed?!?! What the hell are you going to do after that? Get divorced and find another woman who you're going to wait until marriage to sleep with so you can be disappointed and divorced again? Dumb dumb dumb.
2006-12-17 17:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least to men... Because theres no relationship, no problems, no commitment, no obligations... its a bit coward, i think....... and they idol the casual sex.... for some women too! An most of the guys prefer love & satisfaction.. women have the tendency to get more psycologic and dreamie, and guys more fysic
2006-12-17 18:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage itself isn't necessarily pure and full of love.
However sex with a loved one, that you are truly intimate with, is definitely more fulfilling than with a casual partner.
Look for intimacy (not sex) BEFORE you get married.
If you share intimacy, the sex will be the bomb, married or not.
2006-12-17 17:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have rather waited until after I was married...so wait. Sex is overated, get to know the person first, not in a sexual way either.
2006-12-17 18:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure... but it's all on how you make yourself think. The actual act of sex won't change. It will be very exciting nonetheless (given you are having sex with someone you know very well and can be very comfortable. However, I think I would've had a tougher time had my partner not been a virgin as well.
2006-12-17 17:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on time, mood and partner, not because of before or after marriage. if u too tired, your partner bit smelly, dateline and deadline is next day.. can u fell excited to have sex?
2006-12-17 19:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Voltage Transformer 33kV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god no.. dont wait to f*ck until after marriage.. lay a few guys and get some experience first. I have found out that sex after marriage always go down hill, trust me I know and have been there before. Do yourself a favor, get laid!!!! Good luck and hope that helps :)
2006-12-17 17:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by mobile1mechanic 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yes and much better after you have waited too. Your'e on the right track.
2006-12-17 17:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋