my friends think i have attitude problem and im way too moody and demanding.. which is not real me
everyone in my group has a boy friend i wud love to have one but im not desperate and im waiting for the right one...many guys proposed me till date they were all good looking n all but i didnt feel they r best for me.. i dont know whts wrong wid my friends but these days all my friends(girls specially) think tht if i will keep rejecting all these guys i will end up alone i have to adjust n no one can fit in my idea of perfect man ....well i dont think so but still shud i pick one or wait for the perfect match.....
2006-12-17 17:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by sonali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go out with them. I'm not saying you have to make a commitment. You may find that you like someone more than you thought you did once you get to know them better.
When I first met my husband, I thought he was completely not my type. Once I got to know him, I found out that no one else could be more "perfect" for me.
However, if you're happy being by yourself without dating, then kudos to you.
2006-12-17 17:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by q_midori 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you wait around for "the perfect Mr Right" you will be missing out! There IS NO perfect man...OR woman for that matter!!!
You should just try to relax and have some fun!!! You are too young to be so worried about perfection....just date and have fun....as you gain experience, you will see that your values will still be there, but you can find happiness with some one even though they may not have everything you think you want...so just get out there and get to know some of these good looking hunks...and have fun!!! You deserve it...you want it...now go get it!!!! LOL!
2006-12-17 17:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by photogram1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just cause you go out on a date w/them doesnt mean you have to have a serious relationship w/them. If you keep this up no one will meet your criteria. Get to know them and you may be quite surprised to find that what you thought wasnt perfect ends up to be that special someone for you. We learn from experiences and if you dont get out there and experiment you might not really come to realize what is right for you and end up making a bad decision. Enjoy lifes experiences.
2006-12-17 18:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by merickel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well considering you can't spell, your less than perfect, and women who hold out for the non existant perfect guy themselves are found to be less than by the guy in question, and so it a catch 22, you want the perfect guy but the perfect guy does not want you due to your flaws, so you end up alone for quit some time..
then one day you have a hard look in the mirror
and see who you really are, flaws in all
you probaly work on a few of them ( weight ) and what ever you think you can easily fix
but the inner you that makes up your emotional make up will be the flaw that drive most men away and keep them their
they know what trouble that can be with insecurities and the constant need for reassurance
time will fly by until you realize your friends are married, with children, to less than perfect husbands, and they ( your friends ) are less than perfect, but they ( unlike you ) are okay with it.. they struck a happy medium in life and go foward with life and enjoy life
while you fret with that what ifs in life
it no wrong to want a man with a given set of values
the trouble is you do not know in what package he'll come in
so you have you emotional blinders on and reject plenty of guys
out of fear and ignorance
2006-12-17 18:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you don't feel it's right to go out with those guys then don't, that's your choice. But it might be a good idea just to go out and have fun with them find the qualities that you do like that way when someone comes along with those qualities you'll know that they are right. Just go out and have fun and stop letting your friends get to you, it's your choice on who you want to date or not.
2006-12-17 18:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perfect doesn't exist
How would you ever know if they are "near perfect" for you if you won't even go out with them.
It takes time to figure out if someone is right or wrong for you, first impressions can be way off.
2006-12-17 18:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are picky, you should date some of these guys and really get to know them sounds like you go on looks alone and that my dear means you are being a picky princess!
2006-12-17 17:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by DJ C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the perfect match, or wait till you get married.
2006-12-17 17:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't settle but you could go out just for fun nobody's perfect (even you).
2006-12-17 18:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋