Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

my mother will be 43 on the 4 of jan. I want something that is funny and very creative. I am going to have her a party at a very expensive hotel with family and friends.remember this is my mother.

2006-12-16 16:51:02 · 2 answers · asked by SugNspice_1 2 in Friends

where to start well here it is the beginning. My boyfriend and I had started dating about a year and a month ago. He and I really hit it off, and come April of our relationship something horrible happened to me, I was raped. Before you read any further please do not start thinking I should go to a shrink I have been there and I am dealing with what happened. Well after this he was very supportive and stuck by my side. As time went on he pretty much lived with me, and wasn't helping with the bills. I got aggravated and told him to take a hike. He got a job and everything started to work out, but I started to become really cold and mean towards him even though that is not how I wanted to be. well time went on and we moved into a bigger place. He lost his job after a couple of months and I was paying all of the bills. I love him so I dealt with it. We started fighting more and more. Around Thanksgiving we were off and on and he got back with his ex. Well he did not tell me anything so..

2006-12-16 16:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 16:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-16 16:49:04 · 24 answers · asked by aishu 1 in Friends

I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-16 16:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

Ok im going to get married in 7 days can someone tell me how to keep our marriage strong! I love him so much and I know that he is the one but I would love some advice. Oh yeah and he is in the army if that makes a differance!

2006-12-16 16:47:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

an old friend and i have been talking lately, we realized we both have had crushes on each other, and are very attracted to one another. so he says how amazing the sex is gonna be, ( we are going to meet up, spend some time together to see if what we feel is real) what if i dont measure up to what he has been expecting? what do i do if i get nervous about it at the time?

2006-12-16 16:46:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 34 and happily married. But I lately have been having dreams about this other woman I used to work with and who is 10 years younger than me and beautiful. The dreams always involve her wearing a wedding dress. She left our company a few months ago, and I am about to leave it and go to the job of my dreams. She used to have a crush on me but I nipped that in the bud with her back when I worked with her and she left right after thatUnfortunately for me, we share similar friends and I hear her name often and I need to get that name out of my mind. Please advise what these dreams mean if anything.

2006-12-16 16:45:30 · 14 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Weddings

Are you strangely tempted to now that you have read this question?

2006-12-16 16:44:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 16:44:17 · 10 answers · asked by fb2b4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 about to be 14 and lately I've been wanting to kiss and that's all I can think about. The only problem is is that I don't know how. Also, I'm afraid I'll do something wrong and ruin the mood.

2006-12-16 16:43:26 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 16:43:24 · 6 answers · asked by fronication_terminated 1 in Friends

Well, I am 48 years old and there is this 41 year old lady at work who is very attractive. We have been dating for about a year and hinted that she wants me to ask her to marry her. Well, I usually like to marry younger women who will be able to have children for me. Like my previous ex wives were all in their 20s or 30s when we were married. I have 8 children now and was hoping to get a few more. I mean she is fun to hang around with and its great having her clean up my apartment and cook dinner almost every night but I mean is it really worth marrying her if she can't have kids?

2006-12-16 16:43:10 · 14 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 16:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whatever or whoever it was?

why was he making it so we couldn't answer anymore though we had unlimited privelidges?

why was he/it advertising a web site instead of giving answers?

What was he trying to do?

2006-12-16 16:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 16:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

haha yeah my friend on the phone wants to kno! :)

2006-12-16 16:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by soccergirl05_2003 1 in Singles & Dating

about him .....now he is back wants to come and visit me after a year now.....he asked me to please forgive him and that he needed to see me ....I was shoked I said I am not sure about it ...then I said ok ....so a week after that he cancelled his trip ...what is wrong with this guy? he did not need to call me again etc.

2006-12-16 16:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 16:40:53 · 5 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a situation where my gf was telling me, if I don't follow her spiritual (voodoo, magick) path, she can't be with me ..but, yet, I was not feeling comfortable with those things ..and I loved her very much in spite of that, and wanted to be with her no matter what ...but, meanwhile, I said, that I 'm gonna take my time to think about it, she is flirting with another guy to put pressure on me, so I can fastly decide on the topic of following her spiritual path ..In a few months, when I see that the situation is becoming to get serious between her and the other guy, and me starting to become crazy about the fact that I cannot yet decide, if I want to follow her spiritual path to be with her, or lose my gf, in front of me powerlessly ...because, be with her would mean follow her spirtual path, which I couldn't decide yet ..I couldn't fight anymore for her ...I let the situation happen, to let her go with the other guy painfully ...what do you think of that ..?

2006-12-16 16:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my daughter father has gone our seperate ways after 12 yrs.The thing is we still love each other very much but he had a serious problem with paying the bills.He is a good person other than that.Very laid back,never hit me or curse me but he could'nt count for his money.The thing is when he left he's now living with this girl that stay out the projects with 5 kids and rarely calls his own daughter.Come to find out he told me this female is bi-polar,and she smokes weed and she don't take her medicine.Well I asked him not to take our 10 yr old down this woman house,she's not nice to Lex but he did anyway.When my daughter calls to speak to her dad this woman calls her f'in rugrats and lil Bitches.So I'm not comfortable with her going down there.Lex said mom please don't tell dad that I told u he's been taking me down there.Please help.Yes he knows she's doing this but he knows damn well he can't come and stay with me.Please help.

2006-12-16 16:38:43 · 4 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met her in college, every time I eat lunch she always set next to me. One time she set next to me, she rubbed her arms on mines while I was talking to one of my friend. When I turn around to look at her we both stirred in each other eyes. Every time she seen me she would hit me on the head. we talk on the phone a lot, she always call me names and sometimes make fun of me. But we can spend 2-3 hours on the phone just talking about feature marrage. She use to end our conversation with bye! now she ends it with I really enjoy our conversation and I had a fun talking to you. We both always laugthing on the phone. She often tryies to make me jealous, when I mention a girl she says that I am lusting because I like Halle Barry! she often leavs me voice mails to see how my day is going. Some times we argue about things that dont even matter. When I mention I want a girl who don't play games than she jumps and say I don't play games. Does she likes me?

2006-12-16 16:37:53 · 8 answers · asked by wekk c 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a guy friend that i havent seen or spoken to in months, he lives in a different state than me now. whenever i want to talk on the phone with him, he's busy or not up to it. yesterday, i asked him if he wanted to talk and he said "ok" and then told me "brb". i was quite happy when he agreed to it because i missed talking to him on the phone and i like talking to people on the phone much more than IM. however, when he came back about 7 minutes later, he said he was going to go take a shower and then go to sleep. i was mad about it, and i couldnt get over it in the morning because it was something i really looked forward to. so today i confronted him about it and told him i was still mad about it. he said he was sorry but he says sorry quite often that it just made me more mad. i told him that he could try to make it up to me and then told him how he should try keep his word. he got mad, and we havent talked since about 8 hours ago. what should i do?

2006-12-16 16:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3 in Friends

I am 15 and a boy. I am a little old for this, but I do it. I wear Goodnites to bed. I wet the bed about once a week, and my parents do not know that I am wearing a diaper to protect my bed. I have thought about my parents finding me wearing a goodnite on me when I wake up, but they never see me. Also, I only have girls goodnites. My cousin used to wet the bed and we had 2 packages in my bathroom. I am on a limited supply and only wearing a new goodnite after I wet in it. Also, I just started this coule of months ago. Sould I wait and let my parents find my girls goodnites or tell them I am wetting the bed and have solved the problem by wearing my cousin's girl goodnites? Also, it does not run in my family at all. And, it is totally not my personallity to tell my parents I WET THE BED! They will laugh, I know they will because I am not that type of person. WHat shoiuld I do??? PLEASE help! I only have 5 diapers left.

2006-12-16 16:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by XDeefertyX 2 in Family

Just wondering wat ways i could get a girl to become interested in me so theyll come after me instead of my having to chase after them..so just give me tips about ideas..thanks..

2006-12-16 16:35:18 · 11 answers · asked by cold_killa 1 in Singles & Dating

age difference in my case is 8 yrs.

2006-12-16 16:35:17 · 20 answers · asked by rahul17 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I haven't had a good relationship lately and he has hurt me with his lies and looking at other women. He is 31 and 100kg and plain looking and I'm 29, 70kg and other guys think I'm hot and he tells me every day that I'm beautiful. Yesterday we were making out like we use to when we first started out and things were getting very hot and I gave him what he needed. After that we were still making out and I really needed to be satisfied but......he fell asleep. I woke him up and told him how I felt about it and he just said he's been so tired lately and didn't mean to fall asleep.What should I do and was this fair of him to do that.?

2006-12-16 16:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Weddings

I'm 25 and have been dating this guy for 5 months. I do love him but I have my doubts I guess. He talks like I'm "the one" for him and I just don't know and sometimes I even think of asking another guy out. I'm not trying to rush it but I feel like I should be more secure about him being the one. I'm a self-admitted commitment phobic so I don't know what to do to help determine if it's fear or lack of something else. What should I do? How can I know?

2006-12-16 16:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 16:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by Luke S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ran into a guy I had a one month (passionate) fling with 2 1/2 years ago. He told me he loves me, and I have strong feelings for him. Here's the tough part... Since our fling I have gotten into a relationship. We have bought a condo together... and had a baby. We are still living together (non-sexual) with our daughter. We mutually agree that the relationship is not going to make it, and we will be separating in the new year.

Should I 'hook-up' with my ex-love and give it a shot... or play it safe and wait until I have moved out?

2006-12-16 16:33:53 · 6 answers · asked by naenae0011 7 in Singles & Dating