Well, I am 48 years old and there is this 41 year old lady at work who is very attractive. We have been dating for about a year and hinted that she wants me to ask her to marry her. Well, I usually like to marry younger women who will be able to have children for me. Like my previous ex wives were all in their 20s or 30s when we were married. I have 8 children now and was hoping to get a few more. I mean she is fun to hang around with and its great having her clean up my apartment and cook dinner almost every night but I mean is it really worth marrying her if she can't have kids?
2006-12-16 16:43:10 · 14 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cant be serious. I do hope that you're paying child support for all of your 8 children! ;(
2006-12-16 16:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are 48 years old and have that many kids, it's time to stop. I can't stand a man who insists on a much younger woman, as it isnt like you are a celebrity and can buy arm candy. Appearently if you have ex wives, wives empasized, the younger fertile ones didn't work out either. How can you afford to pay child support to all those children anyway?
2006-12-17 00:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many of your children are still minor and if you didn't stay in the home to help raise them on a daily basis, then you don't deserve any more. At 41 she could still be fertile but with your attitude of "using" her for cleanup, you're not worth marrying.
2006-12-17 01:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have 8 kids and you want more? I hope you're joking. Obviously if you really want to get married get the youngest woman you can afford.
2006-12-17 02:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 48 then Kermit the Frog is red. Turn off the computer, go to bed. You have school on monday.
2006-12-17 02:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about hanging on to one...there's always adopting. It sounds like your thinking about marrying her for the wrong reasons..since you all ready have children. As well as if you need to ask--I wouldn't advise it.
2006-12-17 01:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by LostInTheCrowd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like younger women then let this one go.. as a women of 42 i can say we don't want to spend the best years of our life waiting on a man who wont comment to us.. unless you have told her in the beginning of the relationship that your never want to marry her.. if you said that then she knows what she is in for and what she is getting.. your not playing fair
2006-12-17 01:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop creating kids and having failed marriages. Learn about yourself for a while then get back into the dating game!
2006-12-20 22:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
After 8 kids, you seriously want more?
2006-12-17 00:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by roast_breadfruit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy being with her for her, not for her functional (or non functional) uterus. Enjoy the kids you've got, sounds like you've got plenty.
2006-12-17 00:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Viki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋