I'm 13 about to be 14 and lately I've been wanting to kiss and that's all I can think about. The only problem is is that I don't know how. Also, I'm afraid I'll do something wrong and ruin the mood.
2006-12-16 16:43:26 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So far, I'm receiving a lot of good advice as to how I'm supposed to kiss, but I would still love to hear from more people. The more the merrior as the saying goes.
2006-12-17 07:56:22 · update #1
Close ya eyes and hope your aiming for the correct place...lol.
There really is no right or wrong way to kiss.
The point to keep in mind is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing.
Try kissing your partner a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing. While there is no right or wrong way to kiss, here are a few tips to help you create the perfect French kiss.
Relax Yourself
You lips should be relaxed, you body should also be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for your partner!
Open Lips
Open your lips (not to wide) but just like you do when regularly breathing through your mouth.
Positioning
Do not have your faces directly opposite each other or your noses will clash. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of your partners.
Your mouths will then meet at the corner of your partner’s mouth and you won’t clash noses!
Tongue
Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two. Your tongue will then go into your partner’s mouth and theirs will of course go into yours.
Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (and all people like to kiss differently) then just do the same as they do, if you are enjoying the sensation.
Common French kissing techniques are:
1. Flicking of the tongue over your partners
2. Exploring the inside of the mouth with the tongue.
3. Lightly touching of tongues while exploring the mouth.
The most important tip!
Never leave your tongue still or doing nothing, make sure you are constantly using it and showing feelings and passions and finding out what your partner really likes and try and add variety to all your kisses.
Head Movement
Again all people are different. Some people will move their heads slightly in a circular motion or figure eight and some times people don’t move their heads at all, this is all down to personal preference.
The French kiss is a wonderful experience and most people love kissing affection love and desire are all contained within a kiss as Robert Browning once said:
“The moment eternal - just that and no more - When ecstasy's utmost we clutch at the core While cheeks burn, arms open, eyes shut, and lips meet!”
hope this helps...
2006-12-16 16:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just pucker up your lips and close your eyes, because the other people might think your weird for staring at their face really close while your kissing because your might be able to notice all of their pimples and etc. If you really like to look into a persons eyes while kissing, go ahead. Because there are people who like to look into the other persons eyes while kissing them to see what they'll see in the other persons eyes. It really depends on the person. Whatever your comfortable with. Just don't rush into anything and remember to relax and feel comfortable or you'll end up with a really stiff and not so great kiss. Just don't rush and let the moment come by itself.
2006-12-16 16:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all do you know who u want to kiss? U need to know that because you don't just wanna go running around kissing people. If u know who u wanna kiss just wait for the moment and you'll know how. Just turn your head slightly to the opposite direction he is turning his head, slowly get closer and closer, then pucker up and enjoy heaven. If there isn't instant magic just count to 3 slowly and wait, if still no magic then let go. Make sure u close ur eyes... it's rude to kiss with eyes open.
2006-12-16 16:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will need someone eles ( prefably another Gender ) and M & M 's And a Mirror . Suck em off the mirror . also my gf told me when u kiss u should put ur lips in the movment as if u were saying plum .
2006-12-16 16:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time comes, you will automatically know how to kiss, believe me...I was a late bloomer, didn't get my first kiss till I was 19.
2006-12-16 17:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Freakgrl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forehead
2016-05-23 01:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to kiss . . . with your heart, interest in the other, and your passion and soul guiding you . . . that will reflect a 'good' kiss. Just enjoy and be in the moment. And...be responsible of your boundaries. Enjoy.
2006-12-16 16:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i am 14 going on 15 and let me tell you, your first kiss will be nerve wrecking but it's all worth it. the first time a madeout with a guy i ACCIDENTALLY bit his tounge. but fourtunatly he liked it. just go with it and try and not be to nervous. one tell tell sign a guy is going to kiss you is he looks at you then tilts his head and leans towards you. just relax and have FUN!
2006-12-16 16:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it at the right time. lean in on him and touch his lips slighty waiting 2 see how he responds. then the rest will just come natural. if u wanna go the extra mile use the tongue
2006-12-16 16:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by morenachula06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't think about it. If you put too much effort, it's horrible. The best kisses are always spontaneous.
2006-12-16 16:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by rockbigmoney2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋