I am 34 and happily married. But I lately have been having dreams about this other woman I used to work with and who is 10 years younger than me and beautiful. The dreams always involve her wearing a wedding dress. She left our company a few months ago, and I am about to leave it and go to the job of my dreams. She used to have a crush on me but I nipped that in the bud with her back when I worked with her and she left right after thatUnfortunately for me, we share similar friends and I hear her name often and I need to get that name out of my mind. Please advise what these dreams mean if anything.
2006-12-16 16:45:30 · 14 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You have a crush on her... Try to get more occupied in your every day life so you don't have time to think about her... Don't ruin your marriage .... it will kill you...
2006-12-16 16:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just your subconscious mind tying loose ends with "what ifs"... The reson you've had the dreams is just that you probably hear about her and then wonder what's going on in her life and when you stop, it just spills over into your dreams. I've had those about the guy that liked me in high school but never had the courage to ask me out cause I'm hispanic and his brother headed the local racist nazi clique... I liked him too but nipped it at the bud and let him live his life... I hear recently he's getting married so I've had the wedding dreams... but it's just thoughts... it's not like you secretly want ot marry her... your happy with your family, so just brush it off and keep being happily married!!! Oh, I have this trick that I heard about dreams... finish the dream in a more pleasant scenario... maybe congratulate her on her wedding and introduce your wife and talk about how happy you are, while you're awake and go back to sleep... your lingering thoughts are satisfied so you don't constantly think about it... works for nightmares too...
2006-12-16 20:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mexi Poff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you unhappy with your married life? This could be a reason you keep dreaming about another girl so often. The content of the dream doesnt mean anything but your mind is sub-consciously thinking about this girl.
If you dont want to spoil your marriage, forget this girl. Avoid the company of common friends who talk about her often, as far as possible. If this girl is known to visit a party to which you have also been invited, take your wife with you to the party, if you cannot avoid attending it.
As you had told her to get off your way when you were colleagues, and apparently she hasnt tried to contact you thereafter, it perhaps means that she has forgotten you. So, dont try to rekindle old memories of you in her.
Concentrate on other interests and in due course she would no more be a dream girl for you.
2006-12-16 17:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream comes as a result of the day's activities. From my understanding, you always look at this lady in a lustful manner that is why, you always dream of her. My on-line friend, since you are happily married, those things that attract you in the lady in question, your wife has the same. I would advise that you think-less of this lady and occupy your mind with something more useful and important. Polygamy is bad, no matter how you look at it. Wishing you a Merry Xmas.
2006-12-16 20:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say you want something that you can not have. If you are happy in your marriage you are fighting your urge to have what you should not have. Are you sexually for fulled with your wife? I think the wedding dress is your desire to stay faithful in your marriage by keeping your vows of love, honor, commitment and forsaking all others. Besides its a dream. And your ego was probably inflated by the flattery of a younger woman desiring you.
2006-12-16 17:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Count the end cost of sin and realize it's not worth it and whatsoever you sow, that shall you also reap and reaping wild oats is horrific painful sad business and sometimes deadly. Being dishonorable is a shame to your family and your community and ultimately your country.
2) Repent of your adulterous thoughts. You've already sinned against God and your wife in your heart. Ask forgiveness from Jesus Christ and for his blood to cover your sins. Here's how to go and sin no more...
3) Bring your body under subjection to Jesus Christ to crucify the flesh daily (fasting often if need be) and bring every vain imagination and thought into captivity. Rely on Jesus to bring you the victory over temptation as He will always make a way of escape.
4) Enjoy the benefits of a whole, happy, healthy marital home and being honorable and faithful to your wife and children (?). Being an upright moral citizen is a credit to this country and to your community.
2006-12-16 16:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 02:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't enough here for me to fully understand what your dream means but what I got so far was:
A wedding ceremony symbolises the sacrifice and devotion necessary for success.You might be going through a crucial moment in your life that requires your commitment.It is time for introspection,self-discovery and inner changes...
Our dreams are our sub-conscious minds trying to tell us something but in a riddle way.Jot down what you remember about your dream ie.feelings,objects,places,etc. and check the dream dictionary out...
Goodluck...
2006-12-17 01:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just a dream!!!!!!!!! You did the right thing by stopping the attraction before it got out of hand. Now go make love to your wife. Role play, toys, whatever it takes to remind yourself how lucky you are.
2006-12-16 17:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by not the wise one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes new "p*ssy" to you thats it. I think it means you want a little variety. Just change up your normal routine (i.e. new look for you or her or both, learn new positions or try new place and role playing to suggest a few) with you wife and the dreams will stop.
2006-12-16 17:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by firedragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you like her and you have like futuristic dreams maybe or maybe she's going to get married to someone and maybe you're going to the wedding because 1 time i had a dream about the future and it happened or maybe you might like her but that doesn't mean you should divorce just try talking to someone(a pshyciatrist).
2006-12-16 16:53:03 · answer #11 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋