about him .....now he is back wants to come and visit me after a year now.....he asked me to please forgive him and that he needed to see me ....I was shoked I said I am not sure about it ...then I said ok ....so a week after that he cancelled his trip ...what is wrong with this guy? he did not need to call me again etc.
2006-12-16 16:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the time he was here ....we had great time it is just a little details for one of the answers
2006-12-16 16:48:58 · update #1
This happened to me while I was a teenager (don't know how old you are though but this most likely applies anyway). I had a relationship with a young man who suddenly abruptly left after nearly one year of having a relationship. HE CAME BACK suddenly, telling me how he moved in with another woman and her child. I was so shocked and I had no idea what happened although he did show some signs of his personality in the past. I did not give into him even though he kept on trying to contact me, send me letters, etc. He was not worth it. He contacted me because he honestly believed that I would take him back. Whenever I did not give him the "yes" or reply he wanted, he began to say some very hurtful, untrue, extremely angry things about me. There IS something wrong with him and you just need to ignore him! And if he whines or complains about you not wanting to respond him then that is his problem, okay?
Take care!
2006-12-16 16:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by purringout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he calls again, ask him who is this again? After he tells you, tell him sorry, you don't know anyone by that name. And do not just hang up the phone quietly, you slam it down in his ear.
2006-12-17 00:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you be a bit more precise, please?
What happened between you and him the first time around and why was there such a long time of no communication?
2006-12-17 00:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by smiling4her 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even be curious about a loser like that, sistah?He's a boy and a playa. Steer clear of him. You don't need losers like that.
2006-12-17 00:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It sounds like he some issues, and it would be in your best interest NOT to continue with him
2006-12-17 00:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Supercell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you read that book called "he is not that into you"? well maybe you dont need to ... the title should tell you what you need to know
2006-12-17 00:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to be a player. Ignore him.
2006-12-17 00:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋