Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

yes i am ... i always get pissed when they compared me to my elder brother.. about how fillial/good person he is ...
i'm just different .. my parents expects me to run family empire.just because my brother is .when i'm not ready for that kind of commitment.. and now my brother stole the one lady dat i set my eyes on.. every one says that he has a good wife to be and asking me to settle down .. but 30 is still young for me ...

i mean i done what they ask me too ... i even went to their choice of schools/universities they wanted .. but all i want is some kind of freedom and they say i'm a rebel..

whyy!!! are parents like this

2006-12-16 17:31:50 · 14 answers · asked by Edward H 1 in Family

sericously (lol)

2006-12-16 17:31:08 · 19 answers · asked by llazymary 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-16 17:29:31 · 10 answers · asked by www.jesus-is-savior.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 17:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And one time, out of the blue, describes her shoe collection to you and what shoe's she's wearing?

2006-12-16 17:28:14 · 19 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 14 years old. This girl is not my girl yet..hopeful plan on makin her my girl soon. please feel free to talk on yahoo messenger.

2006-12-16 17:28:09 · 5 answers · asked by elkhalil10 2 in Singles & Dating

first of all im 16 but im very mature, some of my friends say i act like an 54yr old. But I guess because of this I cant keep a gilr interested in me. But i do have a girlfriend, but i know that she knows im boring.....regardless of how many times i ask her if i am. what am i doing or what should i do, because i dont want girls to be with me for physical attraction.(im humble) becuase for some odd reason i think the only reason she wants me is beacuase of my looks.

2006-12-16 17:27:09 · 6 answers · asked by future millionaire...im humble 2 in Singles & Dating

well i love him sooooooooo much and i think he still loves me cause he always stair's at me when i talk to other guy's and he always play's song's for me when we see eachother at the Bar.

2006-12-16 17:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by lil_bear_22 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and ohmygod I love him so much but this distance is killing me! I cry myself to sleep once a week because I get so lonely! I'm surrounded by couples and I'm always third wheel. It's my third year in college and I only get to see him two or three weekends a month. It sucks. I hate being alone all the time, but I don't know what I'd do without him. He can't move down here, he can't afford it, and I still have almost two years left here. What do I do?

2006-12-16 17:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

been 2gether 16 years. isn't that long enough?

2006-12-16 17:23:02 · 26 answers · asked by golden girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

An excolleague has been hitting on me. We have business meetings and a few dinners. Danced at a Christmas party. Have I been giving wrong signals because after a goodbye hug he kissed me passionately. He is married and dont want to be involved with him. Dont want to hurt him but how to say I am not interested. Thanks

2006-12-16 17:22:35 · 13 answers · asked by Help 2 in Singles & Dating

but he says he regrets it and that hes sorry what should i do?

2006-12-16 17:21:51 · 20 answers · asked by Ms princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been "hanging out" with this guy for about a 3 months, we go out to dinner, dancing movies etc. He's always polite and courteous and has not made a move or tried to kiss me. He's always the one to ask me out, and I hardly ever contact him, however he only calls me once a week to make plans so we don't really talk. We have a great time when we go out and is very respectful, opens the car door etc. He knows that I'm a virgin and he respects that, the last time we hung out, he invited me over his place. We cuddled and did not kiss or anything like that, he caressed my hair and my back and when we said good bye he gave me a hug. Since that night he took a week to contact me..I asked him how things were going and he said good but that the past week hes been confused, I asked him about what, and he told me that he likes being single and party, but sometimes he feels that he should settle down. I just wonder how he really feels abot me? I'm very different than the girls he goes out with

2006-12-16 17:20:44 · 10 answers · asked by KellyS5 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal? I like to gormandize with small children alot... I really don't know if it's a good thing though because the children eventually get tired faster than me. Do you think this is normal?

2006-12-16 17:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by rh3706 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a "friend" who uses every opportunity to go on my AIM sn and ask boys if they want to have sex (he's male, I'm female) and I have a feeling its because he resents that I am not dating him. These opportunites are few, because I have learned my lesson previously, but I feel the need to punish his behavior by screaming at him, then ignoring him. Does anyone else punish their friends? I feel that it is necessary.

2006-12-16 17:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

*girl as in any girl out there. doesn't have to be hot or pretty at all.

2006-12-16 17:19:05 · 8 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

okay so im a freshman in HS, its not the age that matters in the situation i guess.i have made several post about this matter.to make it short, i have broke up with my gf after a 7month relationship because of problems such as insecurities,lack in commitment,etc.it was a hard choice but after some weeks of suffering thru what i had to put thru, i had to end the relationship.i thought that was the right thing to do, but quickly i regreted for saying "**** it" and she stuck with that option for the next couple of weeks after the break up.
i eventually let her do w/e she wants cuz i dindt want to bother her.so she basically distant herself from the last week of our relationship till 2months later.i have sometimes wrote her notes, and she knows i still love her tha same.
so eventually 2month later she wrote me a note askn me if i still like her etc. that kind of got my hopes up but i guess that was foolish of me.in the beginning of this week she asked me if i wanted to be friends again an

2006-12-16 17:18:12 · 1 answers · asked by itstony 2 in Singles & Dating

Well me and a male friend were going 2 hav a casual nude get 2getha b4 finals n help eachotha so 2 say but, he told me he had a girlfriend so we decided aginst it.However now we both knw we have deep feelings 4 eachother but we met eachother at bad times.So now we are having a emotional affair I think.So wat should I do?B his friend n hope he leaves his girlfriend?Even though I wan t him 2 be happy with her cuz it will make him happy?Then wat about me should I fight for him?R jus leave this test up to time and faith?

2006-12-16 17:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by cr@zi3L0v3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 17:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by randylee2010 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need help because i am in Middle School and well i am....well..." popular " and the guy i like is well....lets put it this way...he is the " class clown " also my friend thinks he is a wierdo but thats why i like him and i think if she knows i like him she'll laugh.

Also the guy i like he always stares at me and doesn't pay attention to anything when im around but i think it's because im "popular" to ppl. He is so sweet nice and REALLY FUNNY! I need help!

2006-12-16 17:15:59 · 16 answers · asked by some1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 17:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-16 17:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

i know it been asked a million of times and i know that i just need to enjoy it and close my eyes and move your lips but what do you do with your tongue ? in detail please thanx

2006-12-16 17:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend doesnt even have time to hang out with me because she's always with her boyfriend.

2006-12-16 17:13:09 · 18 answers · asked by molly d 1 in Friends

I thought it was quite clear. If there is infidelity you leave. If there is not, you stay and work thru them.

The reasons to leave- Cheating
The non-reasons to leave- physical abuse, addiction, working out-of-state, he doesn't know how to handle a situation, he doesn't know how to please me, my parents don't like him.

Look *****. When and if he cheats LEAVE. When and if he doesn't, GET HELP.

Is that clear enuff yet?

2006-12-16 17:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have any of my own friends. I've had a boyfriend for a long time, and we spend alot, sometimes too much time together. All the friends i have are his friends. I get tired of hanging out with guys all the time. I want to talk about chick things. I want some new friends who could occupy my time and get me out of the house more, but where could i find them without being too assertive?

2006-12-16 17:12:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i have this girl that i like and she likes me. she lives in ohio and i live in pennsylvania. im going to visit her for christmas. i was thinkin of geting her either a ring or one of those heart lockets that u can put pics in and im definetly getting her a build-a-bear but what else should i get her a ring a locket or eney thing else plz help.

2006-12-16 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Linda is my husband's sister's best friend, who grew up with the family. She's always been around, and he's even travelled across the USA with her. There was a friendship prior to our relationship. Well, when we first started dating, we met her one day at a monster truck rally, and she edged her way between us and got mad he didn't sit down next to her. She put her arm in his. I immediately got shoved aside, but he got up and sat next to me and kissed me. She made me uncomfortable in that instance and ever since, I've been uncomfortable with them doing stuff together. He used to go to movies with her and take her to dinner. He doesn't now. Now that we got married last May, she hasn't been in touch at all, but the other day, she began writing him again. Should I worry? Should I give him an ultimatum? She has been a friend some 30 years or more. I do feel threatened by her...but I know he isnt' interested in her the way she is with him. She has never been married...

2006-12-16 17:11:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you made the pact with someone the at X age if were not married we should marry each other. Who is this person a close friend or ex-lover? When did you make this deal? Has anyone followed through?

2006-12-16 17:10:38 · 7 answers · asked by firedragon 4 in Singles & Dating

i have dark brown hair and eyes but i adore red reads and green eyes in ladies especially..

2006-12-16 17:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by Edward H 1 in Singles & Dating