I don't know what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and ohmygod I love him so much but this distance is killing me! I cry myself to sleep once a week because I get so lonely! I'm surrounded by couples and I'm always third wheel. It's my third year in college and I only get to see him two or three weekends a month. It sucks. I hate being alone all the time, but I don't know what I'd do without him. He can't move down here, he can't afford it, and I still have almost two years left here. What do I do?
2006-12-16 17:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do the best you can
not easy for him either I think
a lot of times I want to cry and just can't even do that
2006-12-16 17:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy you have atleast that. The guy I am with lives 2 provinces away. It takes me 5 hours to fly and see him. I get to see him for a couple of weeks every 2-3 months. I know what you mean about crying yourself to sleep. When I have a bad day..all I want is to feel him holding me...and I cant do that. If I want to go to a movie I have to tag along with friends.
But the great thing is that when we do see each other..it is really great. We talk pretty much every night on the phone...for a few hours at a time.
Hang in there for a couple of more years...and think of how great it will be when you get to be together
2006-12-16 17:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here some ppl say that's far but he has been a great bf has treated me better than most of my ex's yes the distance can be hard at times but it can be worse least he aint further away!
2016-03-14 14:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Scarlet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm somewhat interior the same boat. attempt to communicate with him on a daily basis, to make a lengthy distance relationship artwork you want dedication from both ends. position a objective (like a mild aat the finished of the tunnel) at the same time as both one among you'd be mutually again, so that you will discover a destiny and stay helpful about the relationship. also attempt to hitch up a minimum of once a month, yet for the propose time keep your self distracted and discover activities to do on your spare time.
2016-11-26 23:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to deal with it. My older brother has been with his girlfriend for like 6-7 years and they have always lived in separate states. They still do.
Just keep in contact with him and try to focus on your studies. Don't let your life revolve around him. Try to make some friends and hang out with them.
2006-12-16 17:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's something good on you that he didn't see.. just be patient n pray that someday u will find a guy who will appreciate u..
maybe it's good 4 your own future..n use the balance time of your studies 2 concentrated your study..
2006-12-16 17:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by abdur rashid ashid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to accept this situation untill ur study finish then u van join him. I was away from my bf for months! but i tolerated u can too fill ur time with sport, books,tv and ...
2006-12-16 17:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by marjan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have three choices
1.someone moves
2.you learn to live with it
3.you break up
thats it pick one
2006-12-16 17:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by konig_charger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do other things to keep in touch, myspace send pix of each other through the mail, call each other and tell him how much he means to u, send him love letters, stuff like that.
2006-12-16 17:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by naynay1852 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any work or anything.
If you don't I guess you can go and move in with him for a few weeks.
2006-12-16 17:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋