I really need help because i am in Middle School and well i am....well..." popular " and the guy i like is well....lets put it this way...he is the " class clown " also my friend thinks he is a wierdo but thats why i like him and i think if she knows i like him she'll laugh.
Also the guy i like he always stares at me and doesn't pay attention to anything when im around but i think it's because im "popular" to ppl. He is so sweet nice and REALLY FUNNY! I need help!
2006-12-16 17:15:59 · 16 answers · asked by some1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what makes u happy not what makes ure friends happy
2006-12-16 17:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by noname247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're having a 'Beauty and the Geek' moment. I'm not sure if you've ever watched the show, but you might give it a shot and see if it helps.
If you really like him, give it a shot. If these other people are your friends they'll be OK with it. If not, then maybe you need new friends or they just need some time.
If your 'class clown' is good in class, see if he can help you with some home work. Get to know him a little better and make an informed choice.
If you're really popular, then you can appeal to everyone - not just other 'popular' people. You've already shown great maturity in seeing 'this guy' for what who he really is. Take the next step!
2006-12-16 17:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the perfect situation to lead the way when others just follow. You are popular so take advantage of it, go out with the guy and believe me once the others see you like him they will start liking him too. Being popular means that everyone looks up to you so they can copy out of you, so if you say he is cool and he is funny Guess what? pretty soon everyone else will think so too. They won't be laughing at you because they will be too busy laughing to the jokes being made by your guy.
2006-12-16 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by darlalee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting past what other people think of you and overcoming the pressures to be popular are markings of maturity. That said, the only higher gauge of maturity would be to leave boys alone; instead, focusing on doing well in school, growing as a person, getting to know your self better, and nuturing some lifelong skills and interests.
2006-12-16 17:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go with him!!!!!!!!
You will have an great time with him than with the "popular crowd" Think in 10 yrs time how many laughs you will have had and how many times he has made you happy. Beats the hell out of trying to impress people and acting fake. Go with him and you're friends will appreciate him for the "clown he really is"
Good luck.
2006-12-16 17:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sound like my best friend sam i am middle school too she likes this kid named rubben and he is the class clown i think should go out with him who care and if you are popular then that means that every one look up to you so if you go out with him then every one will thinks it cool and will not laugh plus if some one ask you if you are going out with him and you are then say yes don't be scared if then laugh have self confidants and say so what i don't care what you think and as they figures out that it doesn't both you they will stop bugging you about it you can do it . its is really easy good luck
2006-12-16 17:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kasey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh that is sweet. Go for it. I went with a nerdy guy and we ended up getting married and having a family. I was popular like you, and I did what I wanted to. The important thing is that you learn to like people for themselves not matter what they others think.
2006-12-16 17:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you shouldn't care what people say, it's your life do whatever you want, go out with whoever you want. And plus, if you two ever go out, people might think it's "cool" to go out with people "less popular" because you're "popular" and you know how people follow the popular ones. Good luck.
2006-12-16 17:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by female optimus prime. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, first you're NOT in love! you're what maybe 13 or 14? you have a long life and a lot of guys to meet. But, if you really do like this guy and want to date him, go for it. if this friend of yours doesn't accept your choice of boyfriend, she's not your real friend. I say GO FOR IT!
2006-12-16 17:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by imperfectrose07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off you are to young to take this so serious.....even so, it is not heathy to worry what others think. Hold your head up and go your own way. I'm not putting you down, OK.
2006-12-16 17:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by noel_1939 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
/no point in being popular if your not proud to have your own mind.
You like who you like. Be confident and people less likely to laugh.
2006-12-16 17:20:26 · answer #11 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋