I've been "hanging out" with this guy for about a 3 months, we go out to dinner, dancing movies etc. He's always polite and courteous and has not made a move or tried to kiss me. He's always the one to ask me out, and I hardly ever contact him, however he only calls me once a week to make plans so we don't really talk. We have a great time when we go out and is very respectful, opens the car door etc. He knows that I'm a virgin and he respects that, the last time we hung out, he invited me over his place. We cuddled and did not kiss or anything like that, he caressed my hair and my back and when we said good bye he gave me a hug. Since that night he took a week to contact me..I asked him how things were going and he said good but that the past week hes been confused, I asked him about what, and he told me that he likes being single and party, but sometimes he feels that he should settle down. I just wonder how he really feels abot me? I'm very different than the girls he goes out with
2006-12-16 17:20:44 · 10 answers · asked by KellyS5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also want to add that he knows I'm waiting until marriage to lose my virginity, I'm 27yrs. old.
2006-12-16 17:42:18 · update #1
I think if you really want to know how he feels you should ask him how he really feels about you because I think that you need to thoroughly invest in yourself if you should choose to settle down with him. You're twenty-seven and a virgin, you don't want to lose your virginity to someone who likes being single and partying, do you? Just ask him how he feels, how he'll treat you as a girlfriend or wife, check his history, etc.
Just be careful.
2006-12-16 19:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel the good connection between the 2 of you and he is debating if he should take that leap to bf/gf. Just because he is exclusive with a female, it does not mean you are dead. You can still go and party and hangout with friends. Just take your time and ask questions. Get into his head and see what is on his mind.
2006-12-17 01:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by choco-vanilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the girls he normally goes out with are the girls he just wants for like temporary but doesn't really think of them as like special and you might be someone he considers special because most guys don't take things that slow they would just dump you...so it sounds to me like he wants the whole party thing but a girl that is going to always be there for him when he needs or just wants her and all that. if i were you i would suggest going to some of his parties with him and all that as like a couple or something and just speed things up a little, like you don't have to hand him your virginity just like kiss him everyonce in a while. This way you are giving him everything he wants and you are still gettin what you want out of the deal.
2006-12-17 01:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, ive seen this a million times
He thinks this:
She's a good girl. so i have to play this safe. i have to be really nice. so she doesnt get offended. plus, i dont know how to have a real relationship. so im gonna take my time.
The Truth:
Girls are adaptable. they can be a good girl one day and then go on vacation with their friends and hook up with some ramdom guy. Vice versa.
A bad girl, who partys all the time, can turn good and start going to church.
He doesnt know this, so he plays it safe, cuz your special to im.
(witch is a mistake)
U will eventually meet someone else and he will kick himself for not making a move.
2006-12-17 01:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you, he wouldn't be able to stay away from you for so long. Sorry. don't let him have it. You';ll regret it
The best thing to do is wait til you're married, but most people think that is stupid nowadays
Ignore Ambrosius
2006-12-17 01:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you, but is confused as to whether he really wants to get into a serious relationship with someone yet. Give it some time.
2006-12-17 01:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by rh3706 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to be like he's a real gentleman.. well i think he is interested in you but he just wants to take it slow and not making any sudden movements.. or maybe it is possible he is gay?
2006-12-17 01:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by francesca C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he feels like exactly what he said. if he wants to settle down, he likes you.
2006-12-17 01:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CLEARIFY WITH HIM IN STRAIGHTWAY.
2006-12-17 01:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he digs you baby. give it to him!
2006-12-17 01:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋