my best friend doesnt even have time to hang out with me because she's always with her boyfriend.
2006-12-16 17:13:09 · 18 answers · asked by molly d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well she should have time for you considering your her best friend. She's just being careless with you. Talk to her if it gets to upsetting.
2006-12-16 17:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by alight_212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this always happens when one is in a relationship. i know coz i did that to my friends before. the feeling of falling in love and being with your bf is really overwhelming that i didnt even think of my friends. but that was the past. i apologised to my friends for my ignorance. im really fortunate that she's understanding and patient. but i regreted not being there when she needed me.
maybe you could do the same, too. just be patient. if she really treasures ur friendship, she'll come back to you sooner or later. no matter how awkward she'll feel to get you back in her life, you should try to make her feel that she's always welcome to be back in your life. since you said that she's your bestfriend. friends should always be there for each other, right? but this is your challenge. you will know if she's your true friend or not. but im sure your situation will be just like my friend's.
hope she'll come back to your life again.
all the best!!
:)
2006-12-16 17:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its common dear when a person is in love or have someone special they will always talk about them to their close friends. Even without realising that it can irritate others who are close to them.Since she is your close friends you can forgive her. Coz her mind is occupied with her boyfriends thoughts. Just remember what will happen the next time when you guys meet up. She is going to talk abt bf only.....
Anyway you dont dishearten, you can keep yourself busy with others friends,read some books, join some hobby classes.......have fun and be happy............cheers
2006-12-16 17:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sbrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state your age, but it is quite common when girls "discover boys" to want to spend more time with the boyfriend. Maybe give her a call or next time you see her, mention that you miss hanging out with her.
2006-12-16 17:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by rivkadacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is ur best friend u should b able to tlk to her about anything!! so let her know that every now and again u wld like to spend time with her if she cant make time 4 u then go shopping.... go shopping 4 some new friends hunnii!!
Good luck =>
2006-12-16 17:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jess F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel. In the meantime find you some new friends to hang out with!
2006-12-16 17:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your question ? If she does n't have any time for you ever then maybe she's not your bestfriend, or maybe this phase will end after sometime. Just wait and see.
2006-12-16 17:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by shankd67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. I know exactly how you feel. Let her know what's on your mind. Tell her friends mean more than boyfriends because boyfriends come and go but friends are forever! :) Tell her you're glad she's happy with him but she's forgetting about you.
2006-12-16 17:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg.... I HAVE THE EXACT same problem!!! My best friend got a GF back in May and he's been spending all his time with her, it's really depressing... I feel your pain hun.
2006-12-16 17:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Flashing Lights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you a boy Friend or a girl friend!
2006-12-16 17:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋