Me and my daughter father has gone our seperate ways after 12 yrs.The thing is we still love each other very much but he had a serious problem with paying the bills.He is a good person other than that.Very laid back,never hit me or curse me but he could'nt count for his money.The thing is when he left he's now living with this girl that stay out the projects with 5 kids and rarely calls his own daughter.Come to find out he told me this female is bi-polar,and she smokes weed and she don't take her medicine.Well I asked him not to take our 10 yr old down this woman house,she's not nice to Lex but he did anyway.When my daughter calls to speak to her dad this woman calls her f'in rugrats and lil Bitches.So I'm not comfortable with her going down there.Lex said mom please don't tell dad that I told u he's been taking me down there.Please help.Yes he knows she's doing this but he knows damn well he can't come and stay with me.Please help.
2006-12-16 16:38:43 · 4 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some guys fall for girls who are no good because they want someone who is beneath them so they can control them. The girl with 5 kids and living in the projects seems like she is uneducated and some guys like those types because they know that girl ain't going no where and she will do whatever to keep him.
Women that are good girls and hande their business may be too independent and too strong for some guys. But those guys are very weak and have low self esteems so why would you want to be with someone like that anyway?
As far as your daughter goes, her safety is your buisness and you should talk to that lady and tell her how you feel about this situation. You both are grown women and need to talk it out like grown women and tell her she needs to respect your child. If she doesn't want to talk to you, tell your childs father to talk to her about respecting ya'lls little girl.
2006-12-16 17:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that fall for women of low character, usually have low self-esteem. They feel that no one good will want them so they pick the worst of the lot. Try giving him some good advice do not fight or yell at him because this will only make him feel worse. If he respects you maybe, he will listen to what you have to say.
2006-12-17 00:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ant change the past but your daughter dont need around this type of a woman who he lives with look at how she does her own well think how she would do your child ,. my opion?
2006-12-17 00:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your daughters safety is your # 1 concern and if you feel she is in danger then act otherwise maybe catch him and have a talk!
2006-12-17 00:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋