I was in a situation where my gf was telling me, if I don't follow her spiritual (voodoo, magick) path, she can't be with me ..but, yet, I was not feeling comfortable with those things ..and I loved her very much in spite of that, and wanted to be with her no matter what ...but, meanwhile, I said, that I 'm gonna take my time to think about it, she is flirting with another guy to put pressure on me, so I can fastly decide on the topic of following her spiritual path ..In a few months, when I see that the situation is becoming to get serious between her and the other guy, and me starting to become crazy about the fact that I cannot yet decide, if I want to follow her spiritual path to be with her, or lose my gf, in front of me powerlessly ...because, be with her would mean follow her spirtual path, which I couldn't decide yet ..I couldn't fight anymore for her ...I let the situation happen, to let her go with the other guy painfully ...what do you think of that ..?
2006-12-16 16:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She gave you an ultimium and then flirts with another guy to pressure you into making your decision. Is that the kind of gf you want? doesn't sound mature. Love accepts other's difference. This isn't love,dude. Sorry.
2006-12-16 16:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No one should be pushing their religion on you. If you believe in some of the stuff she does great, but don't do it to keep a girlfriend. Now, the part about her flirting with someone else while your still in a committed relationship to put the pressure on??? That should be a sign for you right there. You should be telling yourself to run and run fast. Seems she is one of those people that has to have it her way or no way and unless you want to spend your life with someone that never does for you, when your bending over backwards to do for them....walk, walk, walk away.
2006-12-17 00:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the army of men. Let the lady go. No girl is worth fighting over unless she is being dishonored.
The lady is not worthy of your love. Lift up you head private and straighten your shoulders and lean forward. Take quick steps in the opposite direction. Do feel sorry for the poor soul who will end up with this bewildered lady.
2006-12-17 00:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if someone truly has feelings for someone else then they will encourage them to be who they are and believe in what they choose to. I think it is a good decision that you let her move on. Relationships are easier when a couple has the same core beliefs but it is nearly impossible for a relationship to work when someone is forced into a belief.
2006-12-17 00:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by girlinlove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IM sorry man. That sucks. But you didn't let her go. She did it herself. You don't have to change your spirituality to be with someone. Even you considering it shows how much of a better person you are. You were willing to make a sacrifice for your relationship and she wasn't. You are better off without her. Trust me, you will find someone different and better. Who doesn't want to change you into them, and loves you for who you are. That girl doesn't deserve you.
2006-12-17 00:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
follow your morals... if you feel that following a different religion in order to stay with a grl than maybe you should move on...
2006-12-17 00:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by jenna_71591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would send her a voodoo doll with pins inserted in it that would spell out "F--- YOU, YOU WEIRDO!
2006-12-17 00:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes the controlling type of chick
2006-12-17 00:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋