Just wondering wat ways i could get a girl to become interested in me so theyll come after me instead of my having to chase after them..so just give me tips about ideas..thanks..
2006-12-16 16:35:18 · 11 answers · asked by cold_killa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the girl that you like hates you, stop acting nerdy or whatever it is to get her to like you.
If she has any clubs then join them.
During lunch time sit next to her, and if not, sit near or across from her.
If you are going to sit near her during lunch time, be casual about it and sit with your friends as well
Do not try so hard for her to notice you. If you are laughing and having a good time rather then always looking in her direction then you will have a better chance
Be casual, cool and confident not needy and annoying
Do not STALK a girl
If you are in the right situation then go ahead and talk to her but do not seem extremely interested
Give her notes like, in her locker or something, and during extra time.
Compliment about something like her hair or her outfit.
If she likes you, ask her on a date or to the movies and take her to a movie you know she'll enjoy...you want her to have a good time after all.
Don't give her anything initially, for instance, at the beginning of a date. She'll start to take advantage of you and you may not notice.
You want her to want you and not vice-versa if you read me here...you have to learn to be a little charismatic! You want her to be attracted to your personality, not your achievements and your pay check.
Tips
Always watch her secretly to see whats going on with her life.
but do not STALK HER!!!!!!!
you can learn a lot about a girl with spaghetti, depending on how they eat it. And, its cheap.
Warnings
Do not ever take her to a fast food joint (unless she likes food) for a date!
Don't constantly ignore/talk to her. Ignoring can make her ignore you. Talking can make this oh too obvious
2006-12-16 16:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The female mind is flattered when guys chase after them. I think it's sexy when a man takes charge...but if you are having problems getting a girl to show interest back then maybe you just have to find the right girl and the best way is to be yourself. However, talking from experience, a guy who plays the guitar, sings (not like a bad audition on American Idol), romance and still be tough can win a girls heart.
Good luck.
2006-12-16 16:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In quite varies. i had to have intercourse around sixteen yet knew I wasn't study till 18. It additionally relies upon on the age you get a severe boyfriend and what's going on around you. it is going to take place slowly and you may relatively comprehend it. And a tip, whether you prefer it that doesn't advise you're waiting. that's ok waiting till you're in love and that's favourite. i'm happy that I waited. sixteen is a reliable time on the earliest, however the ideal determination I easily have made replaced into waiting till 18 and a severe relationship.
2016-10-05 10:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lottery my freind. The way woman think is unexplainable. They defy logic and reasoning. I mean for a female to get a guy to like her all she has to do is get naked. That simple. Or show boobies. But for woman it usually involves lots of money in your bank acct, extremely good looking, powers of spiderman, the ability to hypnotise, to know what their thinking when they are thinking it, cooking, singing, dancing, fighting, muscular, good style. Those are a few things they require.
2006-12-16 16:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by mike n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't really matter what you do 99% of girls wont come after you , you will always have to chase. girls are either interested in you or not its there choice and theres no for sure way of getting someone to like you.
2006-12-16 16:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Salty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be looking for any girl to be interested in you. Find one that you like and try to get her to be interested in you by having meaningful conversations, making plans together that interest both of you, finding out and caring about her interests, etc.
2006-12-16 16:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear Bold colors that stand out and get some cool hip outfits.Then change your hair.style Then talk to her
2006-12-16 16:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by ronicathe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and funny and take showers everyday
2006-12-16 16:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, this is what it gets me interested, smart, interesting, sweet, pretty/cute, honest, loving, and maybe kinda of funny. try it maybe it will work.
2006-12-16 16:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Carmen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different... the way you act, depends on the type of girls you acttract
2006-12-16 16:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋