Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

I'm 24. I have been in this relationship for a little over a year now. Our baby girl is not biologically mine, but I chose to take the responsibility. Now, we have moved in order for me to get a better job. Not too far away though. I have problems letting certain things go, and they always come back to the surface to haunt me. She said she would just go away and give me space, and time so I can figure things out on my own. She left her ring and neckalace I gave her on my couch...I saw it on my luch break. That broke me in half, and now I really don't know what to think or how to feel. I know that that alone killed me. I am just not sure how to handle all of this. I do not think I was ready for all of the responsibility all at once. But at the same time, I do not want to hurt her; and I do not want to regret anything. I just need someone elses thoughts to help me along. Thanks.

2006-12-15 05:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

33, together with wife (32) for 11 years, married 7.
She had an adventurous sexual past prior to me, including threesomes and foursomes. I have no problem with her past at all.
I was a virgin before her though, and now I am so overwhelmed with the urge to have sex with other women that it is driving me nuts. I have NEVER cheated on her at all. However, it is making it difficult for me to even function anymore.
My wife and I have a very active sex life (with eachother).
I started seeing a therapist about this in October and I told my wife why.
In August she suggested that we find a girl to have a threesome with. I thought she was kidding - now I find out she wasn't, but has changed her mind. She refuses to talk about this on any serious level for a MINIMUM of three years, she says (until the kids are a little older).
I feel awful for wanting this but I don't know what to do. Therapy is not helping (yet?). I LOVE my wife but I am aching all day every day over this.
What now??

2006-12-15 05:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I tell him everything about me...
and yet when I ask Q about him..all he does..
is act romantic..
I was born 4 u...etc
his tooooooooooo Romantic
and its bugging me so mucH!!

I dont want 2 be mean..but how to tell him..stop being the romantino..and be cool..

2006-12-15 05:49:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 05:48:05 · 70 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Singles & Dating

We all get on great but would it be a wise move? Im not the kind to be center of attention anyway!
Help me...

2006-12-15 05:48:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really like my boyfriend and ironically the three of us always hang out (me my boyfriend and his friend) kind of cuz we all have the same sport interests. Lately I can't help myself from crushing on his friend - a lot. I wish I didnt but I just can't help it. I'm not sure if his friend likes me or not and even if he did he wouldnt act because im going out w/ his friend. it's complicated. what should i do?

2006-12-15 05:47:56 · 13 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Singles & Dating

were waking up my younger brother walked outta the shower butt naked girlfriend saw everthing, it was very uncomfortable...anything like this ever happen with you ladies?

2006-12-15 05:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by smithduq 1 in Singles & Dating

In a relationship where GF is still communicating with ex-BF.

2006-12-15 05:46:22 · 3 answers · asked by wowjohn 1 in Singles & Dating

I am S.Rajendran, who is working in Nakkheeran Publications. I am working as a Computer Operator. I need an obligation from you. My friend name A.Anton Nixon who studied with me in Trichy. For Higher Secondary studies he studied with me in R.C.Hr.Sec.School, Trichy and after that for college studies he studied with me 1987-90 Batch in National College, Trichy.

Before that he discontinued the studies in 1989 and after that he went to France in 1992. He went to France with his family members. His brother is a citizen in France and he is an engineer in France. He got an bungalow and all.

Before leaving from India, I am only wrote letters to his brother, his address is like that
75016 RUE
Paris
London

After reaching France, he wrote letters to me on that situation I didn't write letters to him. On that particular time there is no email and all. He is a member in Swimming Pool, he took regular practice in swimming he drop the photos to me.

I need his address or email an

2006-12-15 05:46:12 · 1 answers · asked by rajendran r 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 05:45:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends called me last night and asked me to be one of his groomsmen for his wedding in six months. Of course I said I was honored and would be happy to be, but today I read some information at the following URL:
http://weddings.about.com/cs/weddingparty/a/Groomsmen.htm

The author states that there is "considerable expense" in being a groomsman. How much do I need to budget and start crash saving for this?

I am a full time graduate student, so needless to say finances are tight. However, I believe I can work out anything as long as I can plan in advance.

I had to accept the honor considering that I was the one who set the two of them up on their first date.

2006-12-15 05:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Patrick C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 05:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by i should be a councelor 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy likes a girl, but she only sees him as a friend. They talk and decide to remain friends, but they grow closer and closer over a three month period. They grow so close that they hang all over each other, people start making comments, and you never see one without the other. They still call themselves friends, but it seems like a whole lot more to most people! I am just wondering if I am falling in love...cause I miss her now that she is away for four days.

2006-12-15 05:44:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is physical violence always wrong?

Or do women get a free pass depending on what he did? And if so, when do men get a free pass for slapping a woman?

2006-12-15 05:44:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm clueless!! He's 25.

2006-12-15 05:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mother in Law is horrible. She has done loads of stuff from not buying xmas and b'day pressies for her sons to not going to his wedding to snubbing me on my birthday and borrowing money and never paying it back and bascially bit*hing all the time about everyone. She is married and they are well off but are tight and selfish. They never visit and never offer to help with doing anything in their kids houses even though he is a DIY man he charges his sons £50 a day!!!For our wedding pressie she got a piccie of my dog which my dad took (not her!) and photocopied it on A4 paper and framed it in a plastic clip frame. That is what shes like and its not all about money she does it deliberately., She is so hateful and I've always been nice to her. Well enough is enough - this xmas for her pressie I have got a piccie from our wedding with everyone in it who went including my parents and framed it in a cheap frame from the local pound shop what do you all think? It makes me feel better.

2006-12-15 05:43:48 · 50 answers · asked by Katie G 3 in Family

its the last day of school,< for the year 2006> and all i did was give my b/f a hug.... should i have done more???? like say i love you or even kissed him?

2006-12-15 05:43:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so i dated this kid a while back and we broke up... well he happens to hang out with all my best friends so i get to see him all the time, and he started bringing his new girlfriend over-- and me and her actually get along really well.... i am not trying to break them up i'm not talkin sh!t on him to her, i'm not trying to be scandolous in anyways (why would i? i can't stand him anymore) but he always acts weird when i'm around... even our other friends have noticed, it's like as soon as i come around he's all the sudden on high alert--- why do you think that is? we've been hanging out for like 6-7 months since we've broke up but all the sudden he's a freak? what's going on?

2006-12-15 05:43:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to know who is more compatible for capricorn women? I use to date pices men in the past. They seem to be on and off.

2006-12-15 05:43:13 · 2 answers · asked by Delicious 4 in Singles & Dating

in every essence of that word...................
they are hard to understand.

2006-12-15 05:42:08 · 51 answers · asked by me_adoreu 2 in Friends

2006-12-15 05:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by cody g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 05:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by got_shots 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I go to a bar last night with some friends to watch a band play. To make a long story short, I end up making-out with this girl I had never met, and she was pretty drunk. She told me during the show that she was having a party at her house after the show, and we should come. I told her I didn't know how to get to her house and she told me to call her to find out how to get there, so I got her number after the show. I called her, she remembered me surprisingly, and told me that her and some of her friends were going to get something to eat, and she would call me when they got back. No surprise she never did, but I don't really think she knew who she was by the time the night was over. So, should I try to call now or not? I don't want to seem desperate or like a stalker or anything, but even if I did call her back what do I say? If she hadn't been so drunk I would have no problem calling her back. I am just not familiar with this situation and would really like advice.

2006-12-15 05:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by jfbird1986 2 in Singles & Dating

his birthday is this sunday and i want something for christmas too?

2006-12-15 05:41:29 · 6 answers · asked by marsha o 1 in Friends

Weve been flirting a little bit for 2 weeks, light teasing etc. but we never hung out.

We were sitting in a library with 12 other people all around friends and strangers.

I asked her in a low voice "what time are you leaving"

then she said 6:00 Why, WHY did you ask, you must have had a reason" smiling.
"Why?" louder.

Then i asked her to come sit by me 2 tables over and she said "no first tell me why you asked".

By then a scene was forming and i felt like saying "never mind" but instead i said "I wont tell you until you come over and sit with me"

Then she laughed and said "fine, i wont come over until......"

WHY IS THIS SO DIFFICULT?
if she had just said ' about 6:00' i would have went over or asked her over to talk more private. (not hiding) just private.

2006-12-15 05:40:26 · 21 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend recently got her lips plumped up w/ filler, and I don't recognize her!

2006-12-15 05:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by crazycatlady4real 4 in Friends

2006-12-15 05:39:40 · 4 answers · asked by teresasays 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am talking snacks here guys and girls,lol...what do you eat inbetween meals???...i know its not my kinda question...someone else asked me to ask....so i am...;0)

2006-12-15 05:39:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Older Boyfriend (who is 16) Bought me a Diamond Necklace For X-mas and I Dont Know What To Give Him!!!!!! He Likes Cars But He Got a new truck from His Dad For X-mas What do i Give him? Any Suggestions Were Exchanging Gifts Tommorrow Evening!!!!!

2006-12-15 05:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by YourOldestFriend 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married for almost 20 years to what I thought was a wonderful man...now he says he loves me but he is not in love with me. He said he has his new house, new truck & great family but not happy. He says it has nothing to do with me? So now what? How long do I wait for him to make up his mind?

2006-12-15 05:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by indiana_debi 1 in Marriage & Divorce