Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

I need some ideas for what we could do for my friend's bachelor party. He doesn't want any strippers or drinking, but wants it to be a fun time none the less. Any ideas? The less money we spend, the better of course, but don't let that inhibit any ideas.

Paintball? Lan Party? It's for June, but we need to start planning now. No, we don't live by the beach.

2006-12-15 06:26:04 · 20 answers · asked by uncletoon2005 3 in Weddings

I have been sleeping with my moms finance! Im in love with him and when she goes to work we fool around! Im not disgusting but i cant help it. Im 16 and hes 35. He is so good to me . How do i tell me mom ive been with him????

2006-12-15 06:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by divine dana 1 in Singles & Dating

I was invited to a party in the city tonight (I live in the suburbs and don't often go downtown). I just recently met the guy invited me to the party and I'm not sure if I should go. Also, I don't know the area of the city the house is at very well. So, should I go tonight, or should I stay home where I know I will be safe and sound, and not at risk for violent crimes??? ; )

2006-12-15 06:25:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:25:29 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl_sha1 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 06:24:33 · 29 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:23:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My birthday is on the 21st. Last year my husband forgot all about it and it is looking like he will again. I refuse to remind him. I feel like I should be important enough to him that he should remember this. I've never forgotten his. (Aug.23) I always throw him a party and get him something nice. Growing up I never had a birthday gift or party because my b-day was to close to Christmas. I've told him in the past that I wish he would throw me one (I don't feel right throwing my on party) but he always shuged it off so I just stopped reminding him it was even close to my b-day. Truthfully I don't even care if I get anything(we don't have the money this year anyway), I just want to know he remembered........No smart aleck replies please.

2006-12-15 06:23:23 · 29 answers · asked by Bekka 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Question for the ladies

2006-12-15 06:23:16 · 16 answers · asked by e-smeazy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy i know, who was one of my good mates. hes just been married 4 about 3mnths. however he has been flirting with other girls behind his wifes back. he tells his wife how much he loves her, but i also found out that he told his ex that he misses her too. should i tell his wife or should i leave it alone? hes been acting like a player and i feel sorry for his wife, i think she has a right to know. i asked him to stop doing what hes doing but he wnt listen.

2006-12-15 06:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by lilyflower 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Where can i hide such a very very big present without her finding them??

2006-12-15 06:22:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is the deal, I fell for a girl that I work with about 8 months ago we hit it off and really love each other now here is the problem she has been with a guy for 8 years on and off and he is a real unkind guy. He has shattered her windshield a few times and has a really bad temper, and pretty controlling. He has his own place now but they do not live together. She wont live with him because they will fight to much. We have been doing this now for 7 months and have tried being friends and it didnt work. We see each other when we can, but I am getting worn out, she says she knows what she wants to do but doesnt know how to do it. I am a really sweet guy and she said she is not use to that and she loves me for that. Right now we see each other a few times a week. I just dont know what to do, will she ever leave him, what can I do to help that happen? By the way our ages are im 23 she is 21 and he is 21.

2006-12-15 06:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by napcr8sfx2002 1 in Family

2006-12-15 06:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa T 1 in Family

Please advise me. My mother has left my father, and gone to live in Spain with another man. My dad is in bits, but trying to deal with it. My mum has been a witch with me, all my life, but i have always forgiven her, cause she`s my mum. She is calling me from Spain now, every day, enthusing about her fantastic life, while my dad sits pining for her. She rang me tonight, said, there will be nothing for xmas for me, or her grandchildren, cause she and her bf, are getting a a smart appartment together, and they are a priority, their happiness is what counts. I said Okay, but i am so mad, and hurt at this statement, as my dad is the one supporting her, she never worked, but claims she is entitled to half of his money, and it does amount to a lot, and he has handed it over, for a peaceful life. She loves her bf, more than me, and my kids, and she is taking my father for a ride, but i am trying not to fall out with her, but it is so hard. Any advice please?

2006-12-15 06:21:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I got engaged a year ago. Overall, we have a good relationship. But half a year into our dating, I stumbled across some e-mails he exchanged with his ex(es). Things like I dreamed about you etc. We talked and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. Less than 2 months into our engagement, I found out one of his ex e-mailed him and said did you forget about me, which he replied I'll never forget about you, and signed hugs and kisses. We talked again and he announce to her our engagement afterwards. Recently, another of his ex wrote to him saying how good their sex was and how she missed him, and she broke up with hers, asked if he would meet her. They live 5 hours apart and she suggested meeting halfway. He replied maybe. I was deeply saddened seeing the e-mail and told him so. He said they were only going to talk. He then wrote back to her said he wouldn't meet her. She wrote back really pissy. I know I shouldn't look into his e-mails but I don't trust him. Was I wrong? What should I do?

2006-12-15 06:20:55 · 40 answers · asked by want to know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday I had a guy ask me if I wanted to go to the movies, he was a friend so I said sure thinking we would go in a group. Then he started saying we could go see whatever I want....if I feel comfortable. The worst thing is he asked at church, and I didnt realize he was asking me out until I said sure yeah. See he is also one of my older brothers friends, and I know he really likes me. How do I say in a nice way not interested, keep in mind I want to stay friends with him, since I have to see him all the time.

2006-12-15 06:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:20:00 · 10 answers · asked by mamji 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime i see my boyfriend he feels the need to playfully punch or polk me. i hate it and he knows that. but he still does it from time to time. how do i get him to stop???

2006-12-15 06:18:30 · 1 answers · asked by anom 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:17:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves m

2006-12-15 06:17:14 · 13 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am curious how other people deal with something like depression when they do not have someone close to turn to. I know many of you will say friends, but I need you to think deeper than that. How do you regain your strength from within?
I have always pulled that strength from myself, but have felt recently that the resevoir is empty.

2006-12-15 06:17:14 · 24 answers · asked by Why? 3 in Singles & Dating

Drop kicking a man, how many times in a day would drive your car?

2006-12-15 06:17:06 · 9 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

I have to much going on to let another boring person into my life... know what I'm saying... so any advice will be taken into consideration dearly...

2006-12-15 06:16:13 · 15 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

I just became a member and there is no one I know is an member and I am getting bord just listening to music whole day . If you are a member maybe we can be friends and chat and just you know I am 20 years old and my email address is " love_alot777@yahoo.com" hope to be friends with someone. Help????

2006-12-15 06:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Friends

i have loved him but after marriage he has completely changed...His mother controls everything and to a great extent she is the one who has ruined my marriage...my husband abused me physically, verbally and emotinally.. ..it`s been 18 months..he has been verbally abusive to my parents also..his mother supports him...moreover, they say to people that he is the victim..where as the truth is just the opposite...is it possible that he is mentally ill? because he always blame me whenever his anger breaks out...which is very often..even on slightest thing he doesnt like..although theres nothing wrong in it actually..he misunderstands everything and so does his mother...do they want to get rid of me so that they can bring a new wife as i didnt bring much dowry..he told me that he loves me but i doubt when he misbehaves....i m confused whats the reality---whether he wants me or not?? whether he is mentally ill or what?? please help me

2006-12-15 06:15:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not on classmates.com. That site sucks!

2006-12-15 06:14:59 · 23 answers · asked by Win 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend who is notorious for flirting or just being nice to the point that it's understood as flirting. She's been this way with me but I don't know how to take it. Should I take this as face value of her just being nice or act on it? And if I should act on it, how?

2006-12-15 06:13:10 · 21 answers · asked by will 1 in Singles & Dating

could you pls answer,thanks

2006-12-15 06:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys and I are always friends and nothing more. There have been times where I think a guy likes me, then it turns out that I was thinking about it too much. There is this one guy who is two years younger than me, I am a senior in high school. I know that he has had a crush on me since June. He and I sat together at church on Sunday, he took off one of my rings and put it on his thumb and then wanted to put it on himself. A lot of his attitude, was that he liked me. Then, on Wednesday he came up while I was talking to someone else, then he left for a minute and never came back. I think he likes me. Why am I always the friend, and never the girlfriend? Thanks in advance!!

2006-12-15 06:12:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:11:37 · 8 answers · asked by jerome s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i barely started talkingn to this guy but we've been friends for like 3 years now we finally decided to see if we can make things happend between us. wen he first tld me he loved me was like 2 or 3 days after we decided to see if we could take things further and wen he told me he loved me i didnt say nuthing back. should i feel bad???

2006-12-15 06:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by Xtina12 2 in Singles & Dating