Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

No, I didn't cheat on u
U shud know what happened yesterday
There is a lot I tried to tell you, but u didn't listen
Now, I put all my feelings in my blog http://sanjaysspace.rediffblogs.com/
It is upto u 2 decide

2006-12-15 06:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by Sanjubhai 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by Semper Fi 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think there is anything wrong with black people most of them are hott but some people just hate black people do u

2006-12-15 06:51:34 · 61 answers · asked by toofacepeople 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, a year ago I got im trouble cause I joined bad crowds, did some immature stuff and had sevrel fights w/ my parents. I ended getting a harsh punishment that broke up my relationship w/ my parents. I agree I had to change and I did, but my parents were to harsh. That time I looked for sympathy but most people, including one of my teachers were agains me. She got happy that I got punished. Today I'm a kinda different girl and my parents say they are proud of me though I dont speak to them and they know I don't like them. It happens there was a problem at my school involving that teacher and she asked for my help. I can help her though It's not my duty, I have nothing to do w/ that problem. It's something serious and though I don't like her at all I think people are being unfair to her. Now she says she's always been my friend, just wanted my best. But I'm not stupid and I haven't forgotten what she did, so I don't know if I'll help her. I'm a sweet heart but Im not stupid

2006-12-15 06:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She said that she has never had the opportunity to meet other guys before we met (we were young). She feels she might be missing out on something. A couple nights ago she said she was so sorry, but wants to go ahead with a divorce. Neither of us make enough money to support ourselves seperately, and we have no other marital problems. I was able to talk with her later, and offer that we still move in together, but give her the opportunity to date other men. She agreed, since she feels that dating other men might end up being a mistake. I'm hanging on by a thread of hope. I'm confident that she will not meet someone as good as me (I'm a perfect partner for her, with very few flaws). Although, there's a chance she might find someone special that she won't be able to leave. I know she wants to "meet" other guys, but told me she could not live with herself if she had sex with anyone other than me. I'm going to ask her to go to conselling with me before she "explores". Feedback, please?

2006-12-15 06:49:35 · 56 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

willing to spend up to 500euros

2006-12-15 06:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by helen 2 in Singles & Dating

So I’m 17, wont be 18 til next july, and I want an email pal, I don’t mean like a daily-I’ll-Be-Mad-If-You-Don’t-Write-Me type of email pal, but a slow getting to know each other type of thing with only a couple of emails a month. This is mainly because I have a lot going on and I don’t go onto the computer every single day. So just looking to make a friend who isn’t 40 and a psycho pedophile, I would rather someone my own age, male or female, but I’d prefer a guy cuz I’m more comfortable around them (blame my brothers, lol) but I guess that wont really matter over the net, but still.

2006-12-15 06:49:06 · 10 answers · asked by shortysly89 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 06:48:20 · 44 answers · asked by nExT tOp MoDeL 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay am i being selfish or am i doing the right thing. I recently talked about this guy i was dating and let borrow some money. Well he got a new place and called the cousin of mine that introduced us to contact me as i wasn't answering his calls. I finally decided to answer and he was telling me about the new house he just moved into and wanted me to come and spend the weekend with him, but at the same time he's telling me how much stuff he bought for his house and how he wanted me to go with him to pick out different stuff for his house. Now i'm thinking why would he ask me to go knowing that he owes me money and the simple fact that he hasn't said a word to me about it but always mentions to my cousin that he's gonna pay back my money. He's never mentioned it to me and i'm thinking i'm not going anywhere near him until he pays me my money. Is it selfish of me to think this way? Because after all he's on a shopping spree for himself!

2006-12-15 06:48:16 · 11 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been recently diagnosed with having HSV-1 in my genital area. I got it from my ex who failed to mention he got cold sores. I am out on the dating scene again and want to know my chances (in percentages preferably) of passing it on to others. I have read all sorts of contradicting literature and want to set the record straight. Please and thank you :)

2006-12-15 06:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a mother.. a wfe .... sometimes if i peep in my closet i still smell something .. a teardrop at times but ... im happy in my present life... i dont "miss" someone ..but memories are fond... whats love ??? can we love two guys..same way??im so confused .lol
getting bored so thought of posting this here ,
mail me if sum one interested to be friends.

2006-12-15 06:47:13 · 9 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got engaged a few days ago, but I'm leaving again to go back to college in 3 weeks. My mother and I like to be fairly organized about things and we like to get things done early. When is it appropriate for me to ask my future mother in-law for a guest list for their family and friends? I mean I just got engaged, but I only have 7 months to plan and I'll be in school half of that and working so I need to plan on my time off, am I rushing things? I don't want to be bridezilla!!

2006-12-15 06:46:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have had 5 misscarriages the doctors dont know why.ive been divorced about 6 months and have been dating someone else for about a month.He has mentioned that he wants children in the future just in casual conversation but i didnt tell him about my problem because i thought it was to serious of a conversation for us just dating.my concern is that if i tell him he will think im trying to get serious to fast and trying to pin him down but if i dont tell him and he falls for me it might hurt him when he does find out what do i do?

2006-12-15 06:46:25 · 10 answers · asked by sweet_n_sassy25asd 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 06:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were in bad phase lately we always fight becus of his stupid mistakes, yesterday i called him he was ignoring me for 3 hours!! when he picked up i was crying and he was drunk and he told me to leave him and that am annoying him.
today he msgd me sayin hes sorry and hes fed up with our non stop arguements...!! i wanna tell him that he is horrible and make him feel bad for what hes done! any ideas?!

2006-12-15 06:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by hawai_love 1 in Singles & Dating

have a question.. i have been in a relationship for 13yrs. come to found out that he was married with tow other kids. now that he's locked up, he tells me that he want to be with me, should i believe him, .....all 13 yrs we have lived together..what should i do

2006-12-15 06:45:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My anniversary is next week, and my husband is hard to buy for. He doesn't wear jewelry or watches, isn't that picky about clothes or shoes. Plus, with Christmas just 2 days after - the items he's mentioned wanting during the year are already bought and wrapped (by me and other people) - so I'm stuck! Look for something <$100.

2006-12-15 06:44:24 · 19 answers · asked by physicsmom04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married to a guy after knowing him for 2 month. we allready got ingaged. the wedding is in the summer... what do you think...?

2006-12-15 06:44:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every year for as long as i can remember we have gone to her parents for christmas dinner, but she will never go to mine... This year we were supposed to go to her brothers but i said it would be nice to have dinner at home!!! So she agreed to cook.. My mum would like to see us and the children christmas morning but she is refusing to go and is saying that the children don't want to go either theywill want to play with their toys. When i asked the children if they wanted to go to nanny's christmas day they said exactly that it feels like she is telling them what to say. My mum will be heartboken if she doesn't see us. As we are mean't to be going to her brothers to see her mum and dad after dinner i have refused to go unless she comes to my mum's but she is still refusing. Am i in the wrong?????

2006-12-15 06:43:59 · 57 answers · asked by whatdoiwant?????? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I bought my boyfriend a ring for Christmas. He's the kind of guy who has absolutely everything, which is why I decided on a piece of jewelry. I already bought him a bracelet a few months back, and he has plenty of chains, which is why I bought him a ring. We've been dating for 6 months, but have been friends a lot longer. He's already bought me several pieces of jewelry and always surprises me with them for no particular reason. My mother joked around saying he might think I'm proposing to him.

2006-12-15 06:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

A relative of mine just got asked for a divorce by her husband. What should I say to either lighten the mood or show my sympathy??

2006-12-15 06:43:33 · 15 answers · asked by Michael C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

men can be soo cruel sometimes..what do you think?

2006-12-15 06:42:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

How can me and my mate have a comon law marrage and what should we know

2006-12-15 06:42:23 · 25 answers · asked by willie c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 06:42:20 · 21 answers · asked by devron b 1 in Friends

My boyfriend works all day and I want him to feel good considering his job sucks, what should I do to make him feel special and worthy after a days hard work?

2006-12-15 06:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by lobrien318 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of a nice place for a small intimate, inexpensive wedding in S.E. Colorado or N.E. New Mexico? I have google'd and yahoo'd my fingers to death...and I just cant find much. If anyone knows of any websites or has had first hand experience at a Mountain wedding...please let me know. Thanks!

2006-12-15 06:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by johndeerechick 2 in Weddings

well i moved and we called and kept in touch by email then 2day he called in the morning and broke up with me bcuz he said iwas not pretty enough 4 him and then he said i found sum1 prettier

2006-12-15 06:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by sk8er blonde girl 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime we do it my wife doesn't stop moaning..


What am i doing wrong???

2006-12-15 06:41:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been single for over a decade and I met a man that was exactly what I had been looking for and wanting, and believe me I had to kiss a lot of frogs...then he dumps me with over a e-mail with a lame excuse. How do I resume my self esteem after that, I have a hard time with this issue...it has been months now.

2006-12-15 06:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by della p 1 in Singles & Dating

its happening to me right now,..and I just dont know what to do. I dont want to be mean, but it upsets me. Even though I Know my mate wouldn't go for this person.

2006-12-15 06:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Marriage & Divorce