I have been single for over a decade and I met a man that was exactly what I had been looking for and wanting, and believe me I had to kiss a lot of frogs...then he dumps me with over a e-mail with a lame excuse. How do I resume my self esteem after that, I have a hard time with this issue...it has been months now.
2006-12-15 06:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by della p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not going to heal right away. It takes time! Do something fun and relaxing to get your mind off him. I would suggest a party or a spa. Maybe even a day with "the girls."
2006-12-15 06:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ali B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that would do something like that (Come on, an EMAIL!!???) does not deserve your thoughts and energy! But I'm sure you know that! What worked for me after a bad breakup was going to the gym. When I was feeling lonely at night, or thinking about him, I would pack a gym bag and go lift weights for an hour or two. The best thing happened: I lost 30 pounds, and everyone noticed how great I looked, and I gained back my confidence, and now I don't need that loser!
2006-12-15 06:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by citrusgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must continue on with life as usual. Learn from everything that happen in that relationship the good and the bad. Think about what went wrong. Take as long as you needed before moving on, so your next relationship isn't over before it can get start by harboring resentment from the last relationship.
2006-12-15 06:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that he wasn't the one and move on. Appreciate yourself and love yourself before loving some one else. Do something for you like go to a spa or something
Your single, have fun and live life.
And maybe you'll meet someone better.
2006-12-15 06:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by lobrien318 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that there isnt such a thing as The One. its all in our heads. Any guy that is a caring,loving guy, with the personality that you consider attractive is the one, once you get it it, check is is what you want, then keep it. If he goes away, find other. takes time? yes. Who said life is easy?
2006-12-15 06:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many fish in the ocean and next time, use a sharper hook. seriously, lots of people break up with lame excuses or are hurtful. just keep your chin up and move forward. you will find mr. right.
2006-12-15 06:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That loser!! Don't worry the reason he did that to you over an email was cuz he knows that you are to good for him. Keep your head high and someone might see you doing so and they will think wow! She is someone I need.
2006-12-15 06:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not telling you to be a whore but find you another man. Take time to regain your selfesteam then find you a real man.
2006-12-15 07:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Babyballer2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind yourself that he wasnt good enough for you. and move on. trust me they get better and better every day
2006-12-15 06:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋