Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

I've been taking antipsychotic medications lately that reduce my sperm count and give me retrograde ejaculations...that is where my semen goes into my urethra where I pee instead of out the normal way. Basically I have to urinate into my wife to try to get her pregnant. This has been going on several months and I still can't seem to get her pregnant but she is being so understanding, patient, and loving. I just feel so much love for her that I want to do something special for her - something different. I know what you are thinking....I shouldn't have to do anything special for my wife because she is to have sex with me anyway as one of her wifely duties...but truthfully, in this case its so much different. I consider taking urine in your vagina a little more special than regular coitus. What is something very special I can do for my wife to show her how much I appreciate her?

2006-12-15 07:36:57 · 24 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been talking to this guy 4 6mos and i really like him but i not sure if its love or not what dose it mean when...i think about him almost all day. i find myself worrying about him if i dont talk to him all day. i started reading old emails he has sent. when im in a store i stop shopping for me and start shopping for him. first person i think of when i wake up. tell him everything thats going on in my life. have his pic on my desk.

is it love of just lust?

2006-12-15 07:35:41 · 22 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

i slept at her house last night and me and my b/f got in a fight then he said let me talk to sandy and then they were talkin he didnt no he was on speaker phone and he thought i was sleepin but i wasnt they were talkin about normal stuff like the navy and his guys friends that he would hook her up and then he said we were gonna break up and then he told my friend you no what when me and kelly break up i can treat you like how i treated her and then i got the phone and was like wat the **** and he said wat r u talkin about and i was like i herd you ! u were on speaker phone and yeah wat should i do i herd everything!!! and my friend felt very uncofterable too. and was scared she said i should leave him cuz thats not a good guy is she rite is allways gonna do this and he is in the navy and we been going out for 2 years allready and im 16 and he is 19 help me!

2006-12-15 07:35:32 · 1 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okk my hubby and i have a realy healthy sex life.Were both in good shape and everything,but sometimes he asks to see my ''v'' like he never sees it or something..Everytime when we cuddle or just laying on the coutch..lol now is that weird or what why??.Im too shy to just show him out of no where i have to be in the mood for that!!...do you ever ask ur wives that???.i asked him y he just says i want to see it,but im sure that there is alot of wives/gf that feel the same way i do!.Or what,and how does ur wife react to that???

2006-12-15 07:34:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 07:34:35 · 25 answers · asked by stormy 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to tell him but how? Like maybe give signs or anything?

2006-12-15 07:33:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what comes over me...Can anyone help me with this problem and how i can overcome my shyness? What can i do?

2006-12-15 07:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Too Fresh 3 in Singles & Dating

For girls how bad does it hurt having sex the first time? is there any way you can describe what it feels like?

2006-12-15 07:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by green and blue knight 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:32:16 · 14 answers · asked by livindeadgirlxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends with this girl since the 4th grade. So roughly 14 years. This summer she broke up with her boyfriend and picked up and moved to 1500 miles away to be with her ex boyfriend and is now engaged with out even telling ANYONE. So she has called my other friends but not me. When i asked a mutual friend why she said its because im still friendly with her ex!!! So a "best friend" of 14 years who is 1500 miles away with her fiance wont speak to me because I occasional talk to her ex. JUST AS FRIENDS.. She's the one who picked up and left with out saying goodbye! Am i the only one who thinks this is crazy?

2006-12-15 07:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by trikkikitty 2 in Friends

So one day out of the blue I decided to email my ex boyfriend from over 6 years ago. Of course I never imagined he would have the same email address so when he instantly replied I was surprised. Right away we hit if off again, catching up on our lives, turns out not much has changed for either one of us, a few bad relationships here and there, but we're both single. He told me that he dated a girl who looked like me and that he stills thinks of me while he's masterbating. So of course I liked hearing this, the thought of me still doing it for this guy after 6 years was an amazing feeling. So I sent him recent pix and he thought I looked better now then ever before. He constantly flirts with me, talks dirty to me and goes into detail how much he wants to have sex again. Well, this has gone on daily for the past month now and then all the sudden he's not texting me as much and when I asked him what was up, he said he only wants to be friends and that his life is trying right now? wtf?

2006-12-15 07:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by dazydrew 1 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband about 7 months ago, and I have moved out, moved on, and will be seeing a guy I met once he moves to Az. How do I tell my ex that I will be seeing someone else?

2006-12-15 07:30:17 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my spouse for 9 years now... and we have never really matched up sexually. Our timing always seems to be off and we go weeks, sometimes months, without sexual contact. We get along well, generally. but I can't help but feel we're more like friends than partners. I know that passion fades, somewhat, the longer you're with someone... but is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this? Is there hope?

I know that some people will suggest "mixing it up" or "adding some spice" to the relationship. but how do you do so when the person feels more like your brother than your husband and that's the last thing on your mind?

We have children... so just leaving is not really an option.

2006-12-15 07:29:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 07:29:22 · 4 answers · asked by LyDia W 1 in Singles & Dating

someone tell me

2006-12-15 07:28:36 · 19 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Singles & Dating

My name is Kelly and I am 16 years old; my brother is 15
I won a bet with my brother, and now I get to choose what he has to wear as a uniform for our home school. Our mom said we could choose what we wear, but we had to wear a uniform everyday. I get to pick my brother's uniform. It could be anything from suit to tie or even a schoolgirl outfit(hehe)
What do you think I should do?

2006-12-15 07:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly B 1 in Friends

hey, do any girls out there kno how anal feels? i wanna try but im not sure if its gunna hurt. if so how can i make it so it doesnt hurt

2006-12-15 07:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me explain the story. Last year a young lady joined my singles group. Although she was fairly close to my own age (I'm 30), she was a recent college grad. We got friendly. I was rather intersted in starting a relationship, and I think she was too., but she was also involved in a job search.
Well, last February, she took a job teaching in Japan. It was a one-year commitment, and I figured she'd be back after that. We said sayonara back in late April. We've emailed and spoken on the phone since.
In October, she told me she had accepted another year. Other signs, including her buying a car, make me think she may be figuring on Japan as a semi-permanant thing. There are those in my singles group who believe that she'd be convinced to stay if I shared my feelings (If she's not interested in me, then they've misread some clues too).
So ladies....would you come back in that situation? what do you think I would do? I want some advice form people outside this thing.
Thanks!

2006-12-15 07:26:06 · 3 answers · asked by joshcating 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:25:59 · 13 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Singles & Dating

well... if two ppl luv each other ,..feel strongly .. all the emotions that revolve in luv..have chemistry ...but they cannot be ... for some reason..both are married to different ppl..and the meeting continue..'cos of being friends>>>
a. Is it still love if both want to show ""hey i dont luv you no more"(body language) and want to be on "top"
and it becomes a game... will you call that game?
b. And ..welll how do you cope ...its weird to see him with "HER" and probably ...to see her with HIM.
((Ps>>> i may sound funny but it sure sucks)
i really want some ligt if possible ... how can it be luv..wehn its turning out to be a game????

2006-12-15 07:25:55 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont like him. He would stare at me. but it changed he ignores me. thank u

2006-12-15 07:24:50 · 8 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

I am movin and I told everone and they all said there goodbyes expect the one guy I will miss the most, It really hurt my feelings because I thought he cared about me.

2006-12-15 07:24:33 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:24:06 · 41 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

But he appears to give me insincere advice from time to time so I questioned him and he said "hey I want you to do good but just so long it's not better than me." Would u still be friends with him or what would you?

2006-12-15 07:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Friends

2006-12-15 07:23:22 · 21 answers · asked by eli g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:23:17 · 3 answers · asked by spidersolitaireaddict 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 07:23:11 · 3 answers · asked by Classic Gal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am thinking of getting some but dont know which ones to get? any suggestions?

2006-12-15 07:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a man for 2 yrs. We have been having problems. I want to spend more time w/him, he seems to want to spend more w/o me; golfing or w/the boys at the bar, watching football every Sat. & Sun. He says I have an anger problem. As I see it, he just doesn't like to be confronted or challenged about his behavior. He was married before (is now a widower) and as I understand from mutual aquaintances, she stayed home and drank while he did his thing and did not contest him. Is there any possibility this guy will change for me????? We had a big fight over this issue 2 wks. ago. He called 2X's last Sat. nite and left messages, when I was out. The 2nd. one he say's, "if your there and don't want to talk to me, I understand that, if thats the case, so be it." What is your take on that??? I have not call him back, nor has he tried to get me since. With the holidays here, should I make an effort to contact him. Would you call his grown daughter and see what she says

2006-12-15 07:22:50 · 3 answers · asked by slippery slope 1 in Singles & Dating