It could be love and you are just realizing it. Nobody can truly honestly answer that question except for you!!!!! A small warning. If it is love and something happens it will hurt more than anything has ever hurt you before but love is worth it. Continue to see what happens. Usually you know when they are gone I.e you don't talk to him for a couple days and then you miss him and you realize how important he is in your life. Just continue on! enjoy each feeling and treasure that you care about someone that much becuase wheather its lust or love its rare
2006-12-15 07:40:09
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answered by LIZ 3
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Perhaps, a bit of both. For without the onset of lust, which is a physical desire and attraction, how will one ever fall "In Love"? It is the initial attraction which leads us to an individual. But, only after we know the true person we are attracted to, can we determine if it has become love.
Ask your self, how well do you know this person? Is this purely a sexual attraction? Or do you think he's sexy even when he's at his worse? Then when you've figured out this is Love...then there is the hardest part...figuring out if he Loves you too.
It's no fun, when you love, and he's still in lust!
2006-12-15 07:49:22
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answered by Anonymous
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It is still just lust and curiosity!
True love is so much deeper than the feelings you are having right now. It is very hard to explain, but you will know. Love takes time to grow and mature. Love is about wanting the other person to be completely happy, with no selfishness involved! You will know - it is overwhelming!
2006-12-15 07:42:27
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answered by Kailey 5
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Bee -
Really it could be either or both. Just take it slow.... real LOVE stays..... LUST you will, eventually, get over. Although young lust usually feels like love because you havent learned the difference.
I would say take it slow........see how he feels about you... how he treats you. Does he treat you like a lady? Does he treat you with respect?? These are things that are VERY IMPORTANT
when falling in love.
I dont think I really answered your question, but these are things
to keep in mind when deciding if its love or lust.
Good luck
2006-12-15 07:43:38
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answered by Trish 5
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Love is not a noun, it is a verb. The question should not be "Is it love?", but, "Do you love him?". Only you can truly know if you do. Another thing to consider is, does he love you? If things are going good relish that wonderful feeling. Don't muddy the waters with questions.
2006-12-15 07:43:59
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answered by Lovelee 2
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You're falling into a kind of obsessive love. Get a hobby or something that interest you so you don't think of him so much, but him occupying all of your thoughts is not healthy.
2006-12-15 07:40:11
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answered by geminig 1
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Sounds like Infatuation to me...you may love him, but I would take it slow and see where it's headed...Your gonna scare him off with all that s*** (that almost scares me). Maybe ask him where he thinks the relationship is headed (minus the freaky stuff) and see where that carries you.
2006-12-15 07:43:34
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you're in love sweetie.
give it some more time and if your feelings don't get changed then you'll know for sure.
I hope it's love i love when ppl is in love.
2006-12-15 07:42:50
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answered by beautiful 2
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love is not always lust, but remember love can be in many ways so I don't know if you love him as a lover.
2006-12-15 07:38:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Whatever it is, you got it bad. I'd say love, sprinkled with a touch of obsession.
2006-12-15 07:37:47
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answered by RockC 2
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