Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

Ok I seperated from my husband about 6 months ago,he was such a jerk to me, I did everything for him possible to try to make him happy! But nothing worked, we went 7 months without touching eacother (in any way) it was time to just let go there was no hope ,yes I cared for him but I wasnt in love with him, I dont think I ever really was in love with him as I thought. Since the seperation I have met a great guy who I am now in love with I know its quick and soon but this guy is one of those guys that come around once in a life time I couldnt let him pass. We started out as good friends and it progressed into love...He told me he loved me and that first time my heart melted,I knew he really meant it. I never felt this way for noone,not even my husband...and its actually kinda scary to me that I feel this way towards someone, I never had that butterfly feeling when a man walked into my presence as I do when he does. I am REALLY HAPPY! should I feel bad,am I wrong!?!?!?!?!

2006-12-15 07:22:34 · 9 answers · asked by Mamiinkcmo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 14yo son. He is unusually moody these days and very 'sensitive' in conversation. However, I find that when he is being a 'nicer' son than usual, that soon after or later that day/week, there is something he 'wants' or 'wants to do' as in go to the movies on Friday night, etc.

Is this normal teen behavior? Or, do I have an unusually cunning and manipulative teen here?

After he gets what he wants (if that's how it pans out), he is back to the usual moody and anger oriented teen. If he doesn't get what he wants, he has a 'temper tantrum'.

Please give input. Thank you!

2006-12-15 07:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Family

im in college and im dating an 8th grader, is that wrong?

2006-12-15 07:22:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my husband has a brother in Saudi Arabia who has 9 kids. Well one of his nephews is like 4 years old and he goes around and pushes his mom, my husband's mom, and all his siblings. Then he runs away and no one can catch him because he's too fast and strong. The entire family minus 1 of his sister's live in the same house(perfectly fine in Saudi). Well my brother in law hits his kid(again this is allowed in Saudi. It's not illegal there.) So the nephew KNOWS better than to hit his dad. However I'm just wondering of any other ways to teach my nephew to quit hitting his mom, siblings, aunts, cousions, and his grandmother. Please help. By the way telling me to let everyone in the house leave is no option as my husband's mom couldn't live without all her kids and grandkids in the same house. House is three stories by the way.

2006-12-15 07:21:58 · 19 answers · asked by baddrose268 5 in Family

well there was this guy ,who was my chat friend since 4 years, with whom i was hopelessly in love with, whom i was emotionally and physically attached...(only from my side ok).and coupla weeks before he told me he got bethrothed to his cousin, it was very hard for me to come to terms with the reality,until lately.and last day i was shopping and i wanted to buy a gift for their wedding, the coming march, and i was thinking on differen items ...watches,tablelamps,curios,andthen a lil bit wierd idea of a nice pastrie with their names "to I**** & R*** with bestwishes" came on my mind, but i am not sure if tht wud be the best one to do.........am not quite sure wht shud my gift be.can anyone helpme with better (though not toooo dear ideas)suggestions as to wht the gift should be?

2006-12-15 07:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by ria j 2 in Weddings

im 18
my bf says we should get married
like in 2 years
ll be 20 isnt that too young to get married???
i tell him we should wait until we both finish our careers

and i ask him why should we be married so soon
and he just says that the way it is
but i already talked to him and told him
he will have to wait and he said ok

but why would he want to married so soon?

2006-12-15 07:21:26 · 7 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy have been together for almost a year now and i am almost 21 and he is 21 and we both want marriage and kids. He keeps saying he wants all this now but then he goes back on what he says and says that he just isn't ready for marriage yet because there are a few things he hasn't done in his life that he would like to do. It is just I am done with college settled into a good job for now and am ready to start a family and he is wanting to wait another 3 years at least before marriage. What could I do to maybe move that up some or maybe make him feel more confortable about the subject. I think alot of it has to do with peer pressure with his family. His family keeps telling him not to get married yet because of his age and wait. Yes I know family does mean a lot to him but he also has to go with his gut. Gosh I am so confused on this subject.

2006-12-15 07:20:52 · 15 answers · asked by superchick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a traviler and my parents are strikt they said that i should start dating at the age of 25 now i think the shorter the lead the more the daughter will run please give me your view :>

2006-12-15 07:20:42 · 22 answers · asked by CHANEL 17 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:20:01 · 17 answers · asked by 65fastbackchick 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM A PLUS SIZE DIVA . I love myself and people love me for me but when it comes to men they have a problem. Dating is okay! I was in a relationship for 6to8 month then the dum s**t happens. A old girlfriend a baby momma and also friends. I am a cool girl but I do not take side talking. I lossed about 15to20 lbs.this year BY LOVING MYSELF AND NO ONE WILL LOVE ME BETTER!! why would you want a bone when the meat has the flavor!!!!

2006-12-15 07:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by GLAMBOYANT 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-15 07:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by SAM 2 in Friends

2006-12-15 07:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 and i have been talking to this guy named joel for about 5 months now and we really have a connection. we went to winter formal together and we did hold hands. thats about it really. when we got to my house i went way over my head and asked him out. he said yes but the next day he told me he just wanted to be friends. i said it was ok.(even though its not) and we've talked everyday since. we talk till one in the morning! it feels like he likes me but im still not so sure. then yesterday i ran into a old crush named able and he kept asking me about joel and what was going on with him and me.(he saw us at formal) then he asked if we were going out. of course i said no and then he asked what would happen if he asked me out. i said i would say yes. which i would. then he told me to call him! i like joel but i always had a crush on able! either way i will never get to be with the other! help!

2006-12-15 07:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by Panictwilight18 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband moved out 10 months ago. He said that it was because we were not getting along. We have been married 9 years and up until the seventh year, things were pretty good. Anyway, shortly after he moved, I hear that he is seeing a woman that we both know from the neighborhood, a "gay divorcee" if you know what I mean. We have three kids, 2, 5 and 8.
Up until a month ago he said that I was not very nice to him and that is why he was not moving back. Was I supposed to be nice to him under these circumstances? Anyway, I don't know what has gotten into him but a week ago, he said that he wants to put his family back together, that he has dumped the woman and he wants to go to counseling. I don't know that I can take him back. Older freinds and family (and strangers) say that all men do this, it is a midlife crisis. Any advice here?

2006-12-15 07:17:42 · 18 answers · asked by lisa p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 15yr old walked in on me cheating with another woman.
He said he would tell my wife unless we let him touch her "boob" i feel like i did the wrong thing but i had little choice...
what do you think?

2006-12-15 07:17:35 · 43 answers · asked by gus t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have fin ger ed her many times before and she likes it rough but this time I put three fingers in and got much deeper. This is the first time Ive ever played with that little ball up in there but I wasnt rough with it. The three fingers went in smooth, I didnt have to stretch her and she said it didnt hurt. When she was done and she was very satisfied I had some blood mixed with her c.um. Could I have made that ball bleed from never playing with it before or could the three fingers and all the way in have done something. Again, I wasnt very rough with the three fingers because three is rought enough, am I right;)

2006-12-15 07:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend always says how he spooned with some hot girl, what are they doing. Is the girl feeding him cereal or something, I'm confused please help.

2006-12-15 07:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 07:14:30 · 26 answers · asked by Sam S 1 in Singles & Dating

Helllp Meeee

2006-12-15 07:14:18 · 1 answers · asked by Porcupine 1 in Singles & Dating

that certain person really wants tosay something but holds out.

2006-12-15 07:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 07:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by stormprynsys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this boy and I LOVE him sooooo flipping much he says he loves me too but he loves someone else too how can I make him want me more?????

2006-12-15 07:12:00 · 23 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

i am going to kiss him back

2006-12-15 07:11:33 · 13 answers · asked by peanut 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 55 years old. Very physically active and beautiful. Loving person. Engaged to be married in Hawaii next summer. She already has everything she wants! She is hard to get something for. She is well organized and everything has a place in her home. The price range is $75. I am very un creative and would appreciate any ideas!

2006-12-15 07:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by Alisa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i have a sister and my sister has a bf they've been going out for like 3 months, i met him first and we became really good friends, my sister met him later and they started going out, my sis bf told me yesterday when he called that he was in love him me since he met me, i was surprised. and there is another problem, that his brother wants to go out with me too.. i don't know what to do about this and what to tell him next time he tells me that or bring that topic when we talk.. any serious advices would be very appreciated.. thanks

2006-12-15 07:10:52 · 7 answers · asked by Crazy cool girl 2 in Singles & Dating

all these anti-circumcision people are causing a lot of grown men who were circumcised at birth a lot of unnecessary emotional harm. I was researching the subject to decide if i should have it done to my son and I read some posts from men who were contemplating suicide because they thought that all their sexual sensitivity had been lost. I think its tragic that these anti-circumcision people have convinced a young man with his whole life ahead of him that his life is ruined. Although i feel that it might have some health benefit and its cleaner, i dont think im going to do it because i dont want to end up with a suicidal teenager upset about an irreversable procedure. am i making the right choice???

2006-12-15 07:10:34 · 15 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend invited me to a nudist camp his whole family goes to
what should I do, should I say thank you, but no, or should I go, do I bring a bathing suit with me,what do I do

2006-12-15 07:09:44 · 15 answers · asked by david s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what dose it meen when your b/f askes you if you ready tonight and i said i guess and he told me that i better be ready.We are going mud riding what dose that mean

2006-12-15 07:09:06 · 25 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm educated and I've always had a good job (I work on campaigns) and people look at me like I'm crazy when I've told them our decision because we don't yet have children. He travels so much that when he's in town, I'm working. We never see each other and this would be better for our marriage since we don't really need the money. How do I stop these rude comments and strange looks?

2006-12-15 07:07:55 · 29 answers · asked by Lindsey W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm making a christmas gift for my boyfriend and I'm planning to make a little box with elements that refer to the "first things" we have done together; such like: the first kiss, the first date, the first time loving, the first time I love you, ...
Now I'm a little out of inspiration. Can you say more of those "first" things you do with a lover? You would be a big help :D

2006-12-15 07:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by CoffeeAddict 1 in Other - Family & Relationships