My 15yr old walked in on me cheating with another woman.
He said he would tell my wife unless we let him touch her "boob" i feel like i did the wrong thing but i had little choice...
what do you think?
2006-12-15 07:17:35 · 43 answers · asked by gus t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It was not at home it was in my car at a forest preserve a few blocks from home and he happened to be walking through there.....unfortunately
2006-12-15 07:25:11 · update #1
Although this is a very weird and bad situation, the fact is the truth will be unveiled at one point or another.
2006-12-15 07:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda screwed up, huh? And you got caught too. If this is a one time affair then its your word against his if you call his bluff. But if your wife suspects this already and your son is the step she needs to verify this,then youre really screwed. We all know what will happen if wifey finds out and then you let your son do what he did which by the way constitutes contributing to a minor, does not help matters. You can either catch your son doing something or let him do something he knows mom wont let him or come clean and let things fall where they may. After all its your fault this happened. Maybe your wife is understanding and forgiving and just might give you another chance but if not contact me on divorce advice. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-15 07:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait---you ARE joking, aren't you? First, are we to believe that you had this other woman in your wife's bed? And are you also asking us to believe that you brought her there with the possibility that your son could come home? (i.e., you didn't bolt the door?)
I cannot believe that any adult, whether your marriage justifies your relationship with this other person or not, would be crazy enough to allow his son to dictate how that scene went...what is the end? What will you do if he asks to join the two of you in a threesome? There is no bottom to the black hole of blackmail. Tell you wife NOW, and get on with it----youo're just stalling the inevitable. No 15 year old will keep this secret for you.
2006-12-15 07:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the worst thing you could do. In the first place what posses ed you to cheat? Who do you think you are? Is it okay if your wife cheats? You should sit down with your son and beg for his forgiveness. Not only are you being a lousy husband but a rotten dad. You are telling your son that this is the way you should live. You need to see a counselor or pastor to help with your obvious problems.
2006-12-15 07:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a coward that should have realized that was the wrong way to handle the situation before letting him do that,instead of after letting him do that.If you were a real man and good father you would have told him that regardless of what you were doing it is completely disrespectful to this women that you cheated with, to have her breast touched by your son..You should have just told him, no need to tell on me, I will do that myself and go tell your wife. face up to the fact you were cheating and got caught.By your son no less. You would think a dad would have more responsibility than that!
2006-12-15 07:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was necked your F***ed. He'll still tell. If she was'nt you can she was doing something like looking over the over to remodel it or something. Other then that the best thing you can do is have a long talk with him about how it could mess up there home and most kids don't want that. And he might get over it and move on. I hope he has a girlfreind and if he does you'd better be careful that he does'nt get caught in bed.
2006-12-15 07:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better go tell your wife you will soon be gone, because you now have three strikes and soon to be out.
1 - you cheated
2 - you let yourself get caught
3 - and this is the kicker - By allowing your 15 yr old son his request, you and your ladyfriend committed CHILD ABUSE, and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Yahoo Answers team will most likely be reporting your true identity to the cops as you read this, as I believe they are required to do.
Have a nice day
2006-12-15 07:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by boonietech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like you did wrong!!! 1st tell your wife. Punish your 15 year old for blackmail. Where did he learn to blackmail? And yes you had a choice, you just made the wrong one. What will he want next time?
2006-12-15 08:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by firewomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly performed you!!! DONT enable him imagine he can walk throughout you. He desires to be to blame for what he does - you dealt with it properly. He desires to bypass to college no matter if he likes it or not, and a minimum of you're a respectable determine who's attempting to make confident he is going one way or the different!! not blackmail in any respect - only a properly worded chance!!!
2016-11-30 19:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either a liar or a cheating sack of sh*t. Most likely you're both and your girlfriend is a sl*t for letting him touch her boob. You need to fess up to your wife before it all blows up in your face. I would say Good Luck but you don't deserve it. I hope you know of a good divorce attorney.
2006-12-15 07:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a GUTLESS wonder you are! First you act immoral and then you allow your son to follow down the same path to destruction. You've more serious problems then telling your wife. Try counseling, get some help...I think Jerry Springer would be embarrassed by you.
2006-12-15 07:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by Daystar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋