I AM A PLUS SIZE DIVA . I love myself and people love me for me but when it comes to men they have a problem. Dating is okay! I was in a relationship for 6to8 month then the dum s**t happens. A old girlfriend a baby momma and also friends. I am a cool girl but I do not take side talking. I lossed about 15to20 lbs.this year BY LOVING MYSELF AND NO ONE WILL LOVE ME BETTER!! why would you want a bone when the meat has the flavor!!!!
2006-12-15 07:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by GLAMBOYANT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey! I don't appreciate being called bones. You're a tubby! Thin is simply more visually appealing to a lot of men and gives off a look of health and self care given that it's not that gaunt anorexia/coke head look. It has nothing to do with self confidence as another answerer suggested because many naturally thin women like myself are infact quite confident and secure and many larger women are not. Don't worry though, just as there are men who like to make love to what you so affectionately call 'bones' there are plenty of men who like what I so affectionately call 'tubby'.
Really though, the situation sounds like it was less to do with looks and weight and more to do with the people involved. Don't be so shallow.
2006-12-15 07:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't encountered any real men yet. Guys like skinny girls. Men like shapely, full figured women. For guys it's all about image and what looks good. Men see past the surface to what's real.
2006-12-15 16:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find the right one. Every man has his preference: some like skin and bones, some like average, some like us (BBW). Some even like SSBBW - really big girls. Some like petite and some like muscular.
Like the comedian in Queens of comedy said - there's someone for everyone.
2006-12-15 22:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Inquiring Mind 19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because us large women are very secure with our selves and men want insecure women to control!!! You go girl !!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 15:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just depends on the color of the meat
2006-12-15 15:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found out that BOYS like BARBIES and MEN like REAL LADIES like us BBW's.....
2006-12-15 23:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Meemi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send naked pics.
2006-12-15 15:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋