So one day out of the blue I decided to email my ex boyfriend from over 6 years ago. Of course I never imagined he would have the same email address so when he instantly replied I was surprised. Right away we hit if off again, catching up on our lives, turns out not much has changed for either one of us, a few bad relationships here and there, but we're both single. He told me that he dated a girl who looked like me and that he stills thinks of me while he's masterbating. So of course I liked hearing this, the thought of me still doing it for this guy after 6 years was an amazing feeling. So I sent him recent pix and he thought I looked better now then ever before. He constantly flirts with me, talks dirty to me and goes into detail how much he wants to have sex again. Well, this has gone on daily for the past month now and then all the sudden he's not texting me as much and when I asked him what was up, he said he only wants to be friends and that his life is trying right now? wtf?
2006-12-15 07:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by dazydrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason we have not had sex is that we live in two different states.
And the reason I contacted him after all this time is that it happens I'm moving out of state next March and will be a few hours from him. Thought it would be nice to catch up with him, I didnt expect the reaction that I got and before I knew it, I was really caught up in it all.
2006-12-15 07:51:27 · update #1
Wow, you caught this guy during a dry spell it seems. No sex, and all of a sudden you email him. The guy was having withdrawls.
For a month you guys have emailed, but not had sex?? He's bored... he probably found someone who will give him more than a picture and some dirty emails.
So, now the question is why DID you email him in the first place? And if you got so excited, why just the emails?? Weird situation, if you ask me. Old boyfriends are not fun to get involved with.
2006-12-15 07:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by i am a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to reach him. Give him space. He knows you're out there now - let him take the initiative. He's your "ex" for a reason - you should leave him in the past. People "break-up" because the relationship is broken. There's nothing more pathetic than a girl chasing a guy. It makes you look desperate - especially after 6 years apart. Get on with your life - move forward, not backwards. He was probably looking forward to some "booty" given the subject of your talks. Don't you want to be more than an piece of A S S for this guy?
2006-12-15 15:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he talked about getting back with you for reasons other than sex? if not let him stay and ex. it looks like all he wants to do is get some. he said he only wants to be friends so just leave it at that. i know it seems tempting to give it a try but you will be better in the long run.
2006-12-15 15:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six looooooooooong years, i think he has a girlfriend. When you sent him that text, he simply started to remember the time spent with you, as you have stated "he just got caught up in the moment". Possibly, you made him forget every thing else, especially his new girlfriend.
I think it is best you just be friends with him, that is, if you both can keep it that way.
2006-12-15 15:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he only wanted to have sex with you and nothing more.
Looks like he's now even lost the sex interest.
Let it go....ya'll broke up for a reason - try your damdest to remember what that reason was.
Does this kind of "story" ring any bells?
2006-12-15 15:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm assuming that he's in a relationship now and was just playing with you to take up the time until he gets a girlfriend. you deserve way better then that. do you really think your relatio ship could start again after all this time?
2006-12-15 15:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably in a relationship with someone else and was flirting. Just think about what ever it was that broke up your relationship with him in the first place.
2006-12-15 15:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bottom line is that he's probably married or in a commited relationship. he was probably looking for a booty call and got caught by his signigicant other. if it didnt work 6 years ago it aint gonna work now.
2006-12-15 15:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by mrbass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND DUMMY!
When things get sexual that fast he's looking for a little strange on the side.
Sorry I don't really think your a dummy it's just funny.
2006-12-15 15:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were safe for the moment. a passing fancy. nothing more then an e-mail jolly. if all he was doing was talking and not actually commiting to even meeting you, then you got used. sorry sweetie.
2006-12-15 15:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋