well... if two ppl luv each other ,..feel strongly .. all the emotions that revolve in luv..have chemistry ...but they cannot be ... for some reason..both are married to different ppl..and the meeting continue..'cos of being friends>>>
a. Is it still love if both want to show ""hey i dont luv you no more"(body language) and want to be on "top"
and it becomes a game... will you call that game?
b. And ..welll how do you cope ...its weird to see him with "HER" and probably ...to see her with HIM.
((Ps>>> i may sound funny but it sure sucks)
i really want some ligt if possible ... how can it be luv..wehn its turning out to be a game????
2006-12-15 07:25:55 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they have to keep meeting each other ... as they are in the same family .. say a same house almost!!!
And ..i just try to figure out if its love then why do they have to show ""its over "" by my side.... you loved me but i never did ..and at the same time both are soo affected by each others indifference!!!
thats it!
2006-12-15 09:12:08 · update #1
It isn't love.
Love doesn't play games! Love doesn't cheat, lie, steal, dishonor, or corrupt.
Welcome to the REAL world. If you're in love with someone, you might feel and attraction, a chemistry so to speak, when you are around someone else. But true love keeps you honest. Your true character as a man or a woman comes in overcoming ...temptation.
Honor your commitment, walk over to the "other" person when they are with their spouse and get to know the spouse. Ask him to tell you how he met his beautiful wife...listen to his words...watch the sparkle in his eyes.
Then go to your wife and tell her how much you love her, and see if you want the twinkle in her eyes to be there for someone else.
2006-12-15 07:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Daystar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a game its still love. When two are, as you said, for some reasons married to different people but still meeting and body language says hey i don't love you no more but its just one of those sacrifices a love, a true love, has always given and will continue to give and its just to make the other believe that what ever we had between us has finished and you have to live with that coz you don't want to see the other spoils his or her married life because of that old relation but deep inside both know they are still in love and if they are still meeting eachother, although they shouldn't , then its a selfish side of love but still love coz when you lose your lover and can't marry him or her no more then you just settle yourself to seeing only so that the thirst of eyes is quenched and selfish side of love is satisfied.
Not weird its painful to see her with him but you never show. Call it a game or name it something else but if its a game its a sad game of love.
2006-12-15 16:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if you are in love, but both married, thats a bad place to start from, anyone who has been cheated on can tell you how painful that is. If it has become a game, it seems more like, well i dunno possible not love though, If its turning into a game end it, at least while you sort things out with your partner. They deserve someone who is going to love them as do you, and perhaps ending it for a while will make you realise if it is love, or if its just fun
2006-12-15 15:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by jacks my boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun know
2006-12-15 15:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋