2006-12-15 07:34:35 · 25 answers · asked by stormy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl there is obviously a problem you need to find out what it is! Trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship without it "You" will be miserable and insecure. Betrayal is a hard thing to overcome. It can be done but not without a lot of patience and understanding on his part. He has to acknowledge that he has done something that is unacceptable to you and work on ways to help you both get past this. If he isn't willing, you may have to pack his bags or yours.
2006-12-15 07:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Misty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello. How do we know he is cheating on these websites is the first question to ponder on. Then just be vigilint. I would actually answer one of his ads and see his response. Men sometimes out of curioustiy do things like this, yet you have to be smart and in a loving way gear him out of this behaviour. Not by throwing a temper tantrum or acting like a baby. Converse like adults if he answers to one of your ads, and find out why he is doing what he is doing,.Remember that temptation is out there all around just waiting to grab you. Read the bible together, go to church, pray together, you will see how things will get better. I wish you a happy holiday, and the best experience during these times.
2006-12-15 07:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him... b/c hes cheating online you know hes cheating physically too and if he hasnt done the physical part of it yet.. just give it time it will happen... a little over a year ago i caught my ex cheating online... i confronted him about it and he lied about everything... then ofcourse confessed once i brought the proof to his attention... i forgave him and thought that it would stop and everything else.. i even got rid of the computer at that time... well it definately didnt stop.. he found ways to get online and since he didnt have the computer at home at all times he found women at work and places when he went out anywhere to screw around on me with... it only gets worse girl... you deserve better then to put up with that ****.
2006-12-15 07:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by loveisntfair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one... find out why he is doing it.
It takes two to tango. If all his emotional and physical needs were being met within your relationship he'd have no reason to look outward from it.
But he is. So something bigger than just having profiles on dating sites is at work here. You obviously know this or you wouldn't be spying on him.
You two need to go to counseling and take a hard look at yourselves and at your relationship and figure out what is missing that he is searching for from others, than fix it.
Basically, it's not all his fault.
This doesn't excuse him from what he's doing by any means, though.
2006-12-15 07:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's looking around online he's looking around elswhere too. He is about to make a mistake if he hasn't already. You DO need to talk. Make sure he's worth the effort you're about to put forth. If he isn't willing to admit he has a problem and be willing to work on it then I would pass him by like a wierd looking stranger hitch hiking on the side of the road on a dark night.
2006-12-15 07:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by hawghopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I'm not sure. Do you know if he has met someone in person? Otherwise I might monitor his use on the computer. Using yahoo messenger there is a way to find out what yahoo profiles he has had IM from. I can't explain it here but it is easy to do just remember c drive,program files yahoo,profiles . Good luck.
2006-12-15 07:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it's him? What are YOU doing on those sites?
Seriously, if I knew my husband was on there and I saw it, I'd sit him down and ask him why. That would be the start of a discussion about our happiness in our marriage and what we were going to do, together, to strengthen our marriage so he wouldn't be going online for companionship anymore.
2006-12-15 07:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO THEN YOUR SHOULD BE OK... sorry for the caps, but listen if he is saying he is single online, thats the same as if he was saying he was single at a bar talkin to girls, so i would imagine you could spend his money on counseling or just take his money in a divorce
2006-12-15 07:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very clever way to catch him out would be to sign up to the site and to start writing to him and leading him on about wanting to meet etc. When he eventually asks for your mobile no. give it to him, and say that you have rumbled his little game. For added style arrange for the girls he is meeting with to be there too...
2006-12-15 07:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋