its happening to me right now,..and I just dont know what to do. I dont want to be mean, but it upsets me. Even though I Know my mate wouldn't go for this person.
2006-12-15 06:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well sweetie its time to get MEAN, first say something to her and if that don't work KICK HER A S S~!!!
2006-12-15 06:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by theresajstephens 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is she really that hard up for your man? Sound's like she can't help herself she must have been raised by wolves? Sound's like she is in heat and needs a man.
Get her a bag of Ice and tell her to use it wisely in order to cool herself down.
Additionally suggest that she can probably meet some nice guy online, a bar, or a local escort service.
Some women do it to feel superior...
The boyfriend is obviously enjoying the attention, he needs to make it clear to her that he is and never will be interested........
2006-12-15 06:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by SYLVIA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're confident that your man wouldn't go for her, then you could let it go. If it really bothers you, talk to your b/f and tell him that her flirting bothers you, and you'd appreciate it if he would politely tell her that he has a girlfriend and that he'd like her to stop. You could also try asking her directly to stop doing it, but some girls can be catty when it comes to other women and this might just make this other girl angry. It would probably be more effective if she heard it from your b/f.
2006-12-15 06:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have to say something yourself your boyfreind is out of line. He should be the one handling it in the first place. The ***** isnt going to take a hint obviously so he should man-up and tell her off. If he rejects her in a no nonsense way, believe me she isnt going to come back for that humilation twice. That way you can stay out of it and it doesnt make you look insecure. Plus it will totally piss her off! God I hate people like that. Good luck.
2006-12-15 07:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by chcknbizkit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think YOU should have to anything. I think that your man needs step up and tell this girl that she needs to back off and that she has no chance with him. She isn't going to stop if you say anthing, but if he calls her out and makes her look stupid. She will stop. Tell him to grow a pair and if he cares about you, he will do this for the sake of your relationship.
2006-12-15 06:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mate needs to do the setting things straight . Not you! Let him handle it like a man.Like a GOOD man!
2006-12-15 06:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do that is going to make a difference. It is obvious she has no respect for herself or you. The one who should be saying something is your boyfriend, then she will stop and only then. So talk to him about how it makes you feel and see if he will say something to her. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-15 06:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is an insecure little whore who does not have the confidence to find her own man. Tell her she is making a complete fool of herself and then laugh in her face.
2006-12-15 06:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by hurtand still in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you need to confront her. dont do it when he is around, do it when its just you two. or make it be just you two. you need be like look, i know you guys are friends, but im his girlfriend, and i dont appreciate you acting like you something more between you two. and i am gettins sick of you trying to act nonchalant about it. but let this be your warning. keep your hands, eyes and comments to yourself. or i will have to show you what i mean.
and girl please dont be afraid to mean, thats your man not hers. and what if your boyfriend is like why wont you say nothing to her, and he might just start liking her because he sees she is out to get what she wants. and maybe she is hitting on him in your presence, just be like, look u can keep that to yourself. i dont appreciate you making advances towards him and im sure he dont either, and look at him and be like am i right?
2006-12-15 06:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you trust your boyfriend, don't worry about her. When she starts hitting on him, go up to him and slip your hand around his arm and whisper something in his ear (doesn't matter what). And then just smile at her.
2006-12-15 06:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, It means that to got someone, that other people want too. If it upsets you, it means that you feel insecure about your relationship. Ask yourself whay that is.
People who knowingly go after someone else's BF/GF are emotionally challenged. They will allways try to do that. It's all a game to them
2006-12-15 06:52:03 · answer #11 · answered by bata4689 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋