I am English, married to a Hungarian, we have many differences, but we do try to compromise. I have my own friends and he has his, he likes me to visit withhim when we go to see his friends, there is nothing wrong with them so b4 u get into the uk pple are stuck up forget it, i just don't feel right when i am there, i am a rough & ready type and when i am in their houses which are so clean, big tables for dining, nothing wrong with that (i am used to eating with a tray) i feel really not right & am reluctant to go, its so bad i get panic attacks sometimes, i have told my husband this but i still go as they get very upset & offended and they become distant with him, in 1 scenario they wouldn't speak for a long time to him when he told them i feel so i go and suffer & sit there but i do it just for him & to keep everyone happy so they will stay friendly with him, i do this because he has lost lots of his yugoslav friends already because of me, so i feel i owe him this to visit Pls advise
2006-12-15
06:05:11
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Marriage & Divorce